Congrats! In my view those 3 acceptances are the triple crown. You can assume that 35 got you noticed.
Why? What kitten dies if you have a gap year? Of all the absolutes to choose, why would you pick avoiding a gap year over saving $150k in tuition/COA, or not living somewhere you hate, or getting into a UC or other California med school to be closer to home? Proximity to a good airport is legitimately more interesting than avoiding a gap year. Think this through before giving up your Gtown acceptance.
You need to tell us how much time you've spent in N. Chicago, Cincinnati, Norfolk or DC, and roughly where you live in California. If you are from Orange County and you never go to the beach and you don't like being outdoors and you just want there to be a mall and decent cell signal, then it doesn't matter at all. On location, DC wins and Norfolk (really!) is second on that list. (As a Southern California native, I can't imagine living in Ohio or Illinois. How would you even know where you are if there's no ocean?)
On cost, Cincinnati wins without question. Probably half as expensive, over the long haul, as the other schools.
On odds of same-school acceptance, I think it's a tie between EVMS, Cincinnati and RFU.
On odds of getting into a UC or other California school,
with a gap year, Gtown wins, no question. I don't think you'll have a California acceptance during an SMP year with that 3.0, but you
should try.
On class size, Cincinnati is smallest at around 25, then EVMS at around 50, then (I think) RFU, and Gtown is largest at 182.
On "prestige" in terms of school recognition when you are going for residency, my vote would be Gtown, then Cincinnati, then EVMS, then RFU. No offense to RFU, but the only thing coastal people know about that school is that it nearly lost its accreditation in 1994 (see who is currently on probation here:
www.lcme.org/directry.htm)
In your shoes I'd go with Cincinnati because of cost, followed by Gtown plus taking more time to get back to California for med school, followed by EVMS (live in denial on the cost, enjoy the environment), followed by RFU.
Best of luck to you.