I'm five years into private practice, and honestly, I think life is pretty good. I have managed to find at least two of the three things we all dream about... Money, Hours, Location. I'm healthy, so are the wife and kids. I really do think that no matter what happens, I will always be able to earn a respectable salary doing what I like. I don't really love it at 3am, but is what it is. More money means more call. Less money, less call. yada yada.
When I am daydreaming, or laying awake at night, I occasionally think about what I might have done differently. I also wonder about what my son might do one day. The only thing that keeps coming back to me, is that I might have been cut out for a life in the trades. Several electricians and general contractors in the extended family. Like all of you I was bright enough to manage medschool, residency, and landing a reasonably desirable job. It's not just brains that matter, but also work ethic, personality, and what my Gram would have called gumption. Imagine that instead of college, that I entered an apprenticeship in plumbing, carpentry, electrician... Whatever. Then imagine that instead of slaving away in medschool and residency and in the early years of practice, that I took a chance on myself and started my own business. Instead of six figure student loan debt, I leverage myself to buy eqipment and open an office. I hire a few guys, buy a few trucks. I'm personable, able to sell myself, do good work, the whole nine. By forty I am managing a successful little empire. I make my own hours and only take the jobs I want to take. In my daydreams it seems like a pretty wonderful life. BUT, it takes a fair amount of luck to be successful in business and the trades are no different.
I'm sure lots of you guys have read the Millionaire Next Door. Its a little dated now, and definately a little cheesy, but one of their points that I can't stress enough is this. When the authors asked their collection of self made affluent what their kids do for a living, or what they told their kids to study, it always came down to Law, Medicine, Engineering, and Accounting. Why? Because its safe. being an Anesthesiologist is rewarding, and at least for me, in 2013, fairly lucrative. No matter what the future holds, assuming I have my health, it will (at least in my lifetime) pay an upper middle class wage. I can't ask for more, and while the times are good, I am continuing to fund the almighty FU account.
I'm at an age where a few of my friends have become very successful in banking/finance. Real money for one or two of them, like 7 figures a year. But you know what? They could lose that income in an instant, and when its gone, its likely never coming back.
Long winded answer, but I would do medschool again in a second. And honestly, I would probably choose anesthesiology because when I was an MS3-4 it was the only thing that really grabbed my attention and seemed like something I could do for 30+ years. Five years out of residency I feel the same way.
Good luck to all of you trying to find your way,
John