i am so sorry this is happening to you. are you married, do you have any children? do you have any faith in God? Sounds at least liek your SO is acting extremely inappropriately, but since you have talked about it, he might change-but he might not. Do you have any faith in God? This is the only thing that might sustain you, regardless of what your selfish a*** of a SO might do. Just the porn stuff you mention is a huge sign, you need to start doing some reading, and talk talk talk to him IF you really care about him, dont let this go because you might appear 'jealous'. that is stupid. it is stupid not to protect your marriage. Pray for him that his mind may not be polluted by total garbage, and other peole who could, quite frankly, care less about you. They might be in bad relationships themselves, and dont fool yourself, there are so many men and women out there, dont give a damn if the person they are interested in has a wife or husband, they even get a bigger thrill, like look at how attractive and great I must be, this idiot likes me even though they might lose a beautiful ( because I am sure you are honey) wife, children, and since he is a resident, he will also lose someone who was there for him when he wasnt 'so desirable', someone who liked him for himself. You need to remidn him of these things, some people get so puffed up when they become new docs, they forget all of this because some evil a*** who knows he has a SO is being flattering, or like you said calling him 'pet' names. The good thing is he might have told this person to back off in not so many words, which is why you dont see the 'funny pages' anymore. good luck and keep looking for support through this bullsh%% anywhere you can!
