I agree. But to get ahead, one still has to have a written budget and control oneself not to spend over that written budget. This is not an easy thing to do. If you ask many of the student loan borrowers what they have done with the “extra” money that they have had during the Biden’s 2-3 year interest/repayment freeze period, I think most of them would answer that they have spent it all instead of investing or trying to reduce the loan principal.
Your best friend is smart. I would do the same if I were single and had no kid….free mom’s meals, free rent…no need to impress anyone….and save for a future house and retirement. Most Asian parents don’t mind. They actually love to have their adult children to stay with them. My sister (her husband and 2 kids) had lived in our parents’ house for 3 years….free childcare while she worked 7 days/wk (3 days at her own office and 4 days for the corp). My sister then moved out and bought her first house for $800k….and paid it off within 3 years. My wife’s best friend is an endodontist. She had also lived with her mom until she got married (at the age of 49). She and her husband now live in their $3+ million house, which was paid in full.
Being close to friends and relatives. Nice weather 365 days/year. Many great theme parks. Ethnic diversity. Good food, good restaurants. In-n-out burgers etc.
Not everything is bad here in CA. It's a good state to invest in real estate, if you have money. Home prices go up much faster here than in other states. It’s also easier to find tenants to rent out your properties here in CA. Just put in 20-30% for down payment…..your tenants help pay the mortgage/property taxes….and 30 years later, you’ll have 100% ownership of the property. The value of your invested property will double, triple, or quadruple 30 years from now. My cousin bought a property in Arizona and another one in New Mexico. According to him, both of these investments were a mistake.