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Any idea when we will have our financial aid packages?
Any idea when we will have our financial aid packages?
Unlikely, given that Second Look happened within a few days of Admissions even posting the waitlist. If someone had been, I would suspect it would indicate that Admissions had anticipated accepting the person and came up a few class spots short of what they had expected (for whatever reason). Nevertheless, as hard as this is, I would really encourage you all to allow yourselves to do other things instead of coming back here over and over and obsessing about the waitlist. If you have been waitlisted, that means you might get a call/email in a few months. Assume you won't and move on with life as if it just wasn't going to happen this year. If it does, it's a great surprise but it's seriously not worth obsessing over. It's just going to make you miserable if you do.
anyone else get an e-mail asking for your SSN to process your FAFSA?
I'm just wary of giving out my personal info without confirming that it's secure. The phone number they gave out matches the admissions number though, so I guess it's safe.Yes I did as well. Hopefully this means we will be getting our FA packages soon!
I agree with the idea that worrying/obsessing won't change anything, however wasn't it stated in this thread that about 50-60% of the class comes from the waitlist anyway?
Not to be debbie downer here but wanted to be realistic. while there are more offers to be made, it's important to remember that most of the movement will be on the out of state list. In state movement will be much less, if any. An M2 told me that her year, they had 11 people off the waitlist for in state but I'm sure the trend changes on a yearly basis.
Chickenmaster, if 11 people were taken of the IS list last year, that means you DO HAVE a chance. For all you know, you're #1 on the wait list, in which case, only 1 person has to reject an offer. . . No salt rub here!Thanks again for the umpteenth reminder that in-staters WL'ed have no chance. I think we all get it by this point, no need to keep rubbing salt in the wound.
Why do I even keep coming on here? Sighs.
Thanks again for the umpteenth reminder that in-staters WL'ed have no chance. I think we all get it by this point, no need to keep rubbing salt in the wound.
Why do I even keep coming on here? Sighs.
Nobody is trying to be harsh. Instead, they're just trying to keep us all realistic about what the next few months may or may not hold. I've been told a career in medicine requires a tough skin. It might be in our best interest to start acting like the strong and confident physicians we hope to be starting now.
Try your best to not take everything so personally. I know it's easier said than done, but if you're going to be helping others battle diseases and injuries, it's wise to develop stress management techniques so you too don't fall apart in the process. You've mentioned crying a few times in this thread. Instead of getting worked up, try to focus on the good:
*You were granted an interview and a spot on the wait list.
*You may still be accepted in the upcoming months.
*And if you have to wait one more year, do you really think you'll be looking back when you're 75, thinking "I really wish I had been accepted to med school in 2014 instead of 2015." I don't believe you will.
I agree with you on the tough skin, which I definitely feel is important and something that I could work on. I also agree with you on focusing on the positives - I mean, it is awesome that we are waitlisted out of 8,000+ applicants this year, and by no means am I taking that for granted. I've also already starting putting together my plan and next steps for reapplication - so I have that covered as well.
What I'm saying is just this situation is frustrating and exhausting. I wait for 6:30pm every single day and this waitlist is always on my mind. It frustrates me even further that I can't do anything to change my spot, regardless of hard I try. I'm just not a person to sit back and watch things happen [or not happen] so this whole thing is just tiring. I won't ever stop trying, but I just wish more than anything I could start medical school, especially at MCV. I love everything about medicine, the coursework, the learning, interacting with patients, helping people, etc. etc. and I'm just upset because I'm not there yet I'm so ready, but it's not happening.
I agree with you on the tough skin, which I definitely feel is important and something that I could work on. I also agree with you on focusing on the positives - I mean, it is awesome that we are waitlisted out of 8,000+ applicants this year, and by no means am I taking that for granted. I've also already starting putting together my plan and next steps for reapplication - so I have that covered as well.
What I'm saying is just this situation is frustrating and exhausting. I wait for 6:30pm every single day and this waitlist is always on my mind. It frustrates me even further that I can't do anything to change my spot, regardless of hard I try. I'm just not a person to sit back and watch things happen [or not happen] so this whole thing is just tiring. I won't ever stop trying, but I just wish more than anything I could start medical school, especially at MCV. I love everything about medicine, the coursework, the learning, interacting with patients, helping people, etc. etc. and I'm just upset because I'm not there yet I'm so ready, but it's not happening.
Chickenmaster, if 11 people were taken of the IS list last year, that means you DO HAVE a chance. For all you know, you're #1 on the wait list, in which case, only 1 person has to reject an offer. . . No salt rub here!
damn. music2doc is really harsh. I agree with some of his (her?) points but not the way it was said.
I can't fully understand but I can imagine waiting and hoping for a call. I don't know how an interviewer can perceive your eagerness and desire as a bad thing so don't beat yourself up. I have many friends in your exact same position, chickenmaster. Just know that this application cycle is still not over. I imagine that there will be some movement after the date in May (I think it's the 15th) when deposits are no longer refundable.
damn. music2doc is really harsh. I agree with some of his (her?) points but not the way it was said.
I can't fully understand but I can imagine waiting and hoping for a call. I don't know how an interviewer can perceive your eagerness and desire as a bad thing so don't beat yourself up. I have many friends in your exact same position, chickenmaster. Just know that this application cycle is still not over. I imagine that there will be some movement after the date in May (I think it's the 15th) when deposits are no longer refundable.
Tough call, but officially withdrew my acceptance on Friday. As ideal as the location/in-state tuition would be for me at VCU, I just don't feel the new curriculum and academic reputation would put me in the best position to achieve my career goals. What's 60k more in loans anyway, right? Best of luck to everyone with the remainder of the cycle!
It sounds like you need to find some other hobbies. Waiting until 6:30pm every day to see whether or not you get pulled off a waitlist is probably the worst thing you could be doing with your time. I recently heard a great quote by someone (paraphrasing):
"People always say it's the big things you do in life that determine whether or not you succeed -- your SAT score; who you marry; whether & where you go to college. It's not! It's the decisions you make and actions you take every day -- the small, seemingly insignificant decisions and actions -- that ultimately determine your success or failure. The 'big' ones are nothing more than mile posts by which the sum of the smaller ones can be measured."
The fact that you are basically sitting around every day until 6:30 to see whether or not your signpost magically goes from "failure" to "success" might even give some insight into why you were waitlisted in the first place. I don't mean this to be harsh, but someone who states they are waiting all day, everyday for "the call" doesn't really sound like someone I would give high marks to for admission to medical school. Would you?
I think all he was saying is that it's unhealthy to perseverate on it at the moment. Worrying yourself to death at 6:30pm every day isn't likely to change the admissions outcome but doing everything you can to show substantive improvement over the previous cycle is likely to have an impact, even if it only manifests in a subsequent cycle. Read point #8 here. I think he was trying to say something like that.
This makes me think of the quote from Dumb and Dumber. I just found it on imdb:
Lloyd Christmas: What do you think the chances are of a guy like you and a girl like me... ending up together?
Mary Swanson: Well, Lloyd, that's difficult to say. I mean, we don't really...
Lloyd Christmas: Hit me with it! Just give it to me straight! I came a long way just to see you, Mary. The least you can do is level with me. What are my chances?
Mary Swanson: Not good.
Lloyd Christmas: You mean, not good like one out of a hundred?
Mary Swanson: I'd say more like one out of a million.
[pause]
Lloyd Christmas: So you're telling me there's a chance... YEAH!
damn. music2doc is really harsh. I agree with some of his (her?) points but not the way it was said.
I can't fully understand but I can imagine waiting and hoping for a call. I don't know how an interviewer can perceive your eagerness and desire as a bad thing so don't beat yourself up. I have many friends in your exact same position, chickenmaster. Just know that this application cycle is still not over. I imagine that there will be some movement after the date in May (I think it's the 15th) when deposits are no longer refundable.
Music2doc is actually being honest and upfront. I'm surprised he even took the time out of his day to tell someone that sounds kinda crazyyyy to chill out.
If someone fails they work hard and get back on their feet. It's a whole lot better than driving yourself insane then making theatrical posts on sdn about how you're waiting 24/7 for "the call"
For the record, (which I don't know even know why I'm responding to you) I've signed up for another MCAT, started more volunteering, and am reaching out to physicians for new shadowing opportunities over the summer - not to mention securing more recommendation letter writers for the next cycle and thinking about my new personal statement. Yes, I'm waiting for the "call", but that doesn't mean that I haven't been proactive in working towards improving my application for next cycle.
That was a lot of work for nothing productive at all but thank you.
Just accepted today! Pretty surprised but better late than never!
Ya it was right around that time!Congratulations!! Did the email come through around the same time as other status updates (3:20-3:30PM)?
Ya it was right around that time!
I know VCU isn't responsive to updates really, but I am a co-author an a nature publication that was published last week. Do you think that is something I should be sending along? I know the ranking is fairly set, so do you think that would have any influence at all? I also (fingers crossed) should have a 4.0 from this past year, but I am assuming sending in an updated transcript at this point would have no bearing on my application.
Their website says they will accept updates about publications and new grades. And NATURE??? Absolutely send that in!!
Haha, yeah, it was a great graduation present (I'm only 3rd author though, but it was 8 months worth of work). Do you have any suggests as to who I should send this to?
And CONGRATS on the acceptance!!!!!
does your name mean anything special?I am OOS.
I lived in Thailand for a few years so it's a Thai word with English spelling. It basically means laid back.does your name mean anything special?
I lived in Thailand for a few years so it's a Thai word with English spelling. It basically means laid back.
Thanks! (It obviously worked out well for you )I would email Dr. Whitehurst-Cook. I, too, had a publication update and that's what I did.
And thank you!!
EDIT: and a third author, especially in Nature, is nothing to be modest about!!
Thanks! (It obviously worked out well for you )
In state hereCongrats guys! Just curious, are you both IS or OOS?
GOT ACCEPTED OF THE WL!!! YESSS my first choice so happy gahhhh!!!! All the waiting final paid off!