So you like effeminate guys? Nothing wrong with that. Liking a guy who shaves his chest, calls his parents every day, has never used a tool or fixed anything in his life, doesn't know how to drive a stick shift let alone a motorcycle, spends hours every day on his appearance, still gets his money from mom and pop, and surrounds himself in drama?
Sorry, but the game hasn't changed. Obviously people are different and two seemingly identical girls may be attracted two totally different types of men, but if anything, the metrosexual fad from a few years back has increased the appeal of the traditional 'man's man.' You would be surprised how many young, attractive, urban wasp-type girls when it comes down to it really want the man who is slightly grizzly, chiseled, much bigger than she is, and besides the necessary educational prerequisites of college/grad school knows how to use a chainsaw, frame a house, hunt, or drive something other than a Prius. They may strategically choose to marry the effiminate trust fund guy instead, but that's a different matter.