For men, the best way to get laid is to get over your fear of rejection. This is the #1 inhibitor to getting laid. TRP advocates that you need to take life as it is. Sure, it would be great if women started approaching guys they liked and propositioning sex/relationships, but the overwhelming majority of the time, they just stand and wait, hoping the "right" guy will come along. What does that mean? A guy they find attractive, kind, and [insert other characteristics here]. Now, you can not be that guy for a variety of reasons. You might be too serious (like me), not tall enough, not rich enough, or she already has someone and isn't interested. Thats OK. You wouldn't want to be with her anyway. Her rejection of you has nothing to do with who you are- you simply weren't compatible. Whats the good part? For every girl that rejects you, you're getting closer and closer to a girl that thinks your charming/cute and will sleep with you. What better way is there to increase your chances than to increase n? I can attest to this myself. I was at a bar a few days ago and saw a really cute girl that wasn't from our MS1 class. I approached, she reciprocated with conversation, etc. When i went for her number, she made it clear she had a boyfriend (who was at the bar) and sure i was annoyed but i went my merry way to try it all over again. I tried again and again (about 4 girls later) i hit it off with another cute girl. No idea where its going to go, but its clear shes attracted to me, and i to her. Whats better than that? Do you want someone that isn't interested in you? Of course not. So work on getting over rejection- its hard but its worth it. Oh, and remember, girls want you to talk to them- they arent at a bar dressed half naked in the cold to "have fun with friends".
Oh, and for the (presuming) females posting on this thread, i can see where you're coming from but i also think you're taking a personal perspective and attempting to generalize it. It doesn't work that way. Most men, including myself, aren't chasing women that "dont need no man", we want a woman that needs her man and that is sexy. Im sure there are plenty of laid back guys that won't mind the alpha female personality, but i would argue that a majority of men don't like that. Why? Most of us are raised with the presumption that if we don't make something of ourselves, we're useless to society and in consequence, useless to women. Why are the majority of women attracted to high status men? I believe its because they're biologically wired to. This obviously might not apply to high status women because you're already financially/resource secure but there are plenty of pretty girls that just want a guy that will take care of her.
