I wasn't even referencing that study although I know the study in which you are talking about. The actual study I was looking at was a very recent study done by a non-religious university (UVA) in which they showed that the number of premarital sexual partners you've had correlates with unhappier marriages:
http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/NMP-BeforeIDoReport-Final.pdf
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According to researchers, the 23 percent of participants who
only had sex with their spouse prior to getting hitched reported higher quality marriages versus those who had other past sexual partners as well.
They claim this finding is especially true for women, writing in the report, "We further found that the more sexual partners a woman had had before marriage, the less happy she reported her marriage to be."
On top of that, researchers say that participants who lived with an S.O. -- who did not become their future spouse -- also reported unhappier marriages"
I know this idea doesn't fit into the popular notion that having lots of sexual partners is harmless and even necessary for long-term relationship success, but the data clearly flies in the face of this. Furthermore, I have yet to see a reputable study that reports absolutely zero link between number of sexual partners and marital satisfaction, so there obviously is a link even if you don't think there is.
Look I'm not gonna go back and forth with you guys on this. Just know that many men, especially those from "traditional" cultures, don't want to settle long-term with a loose woman, and no amount of shaming and claiming "m-m-muh double standards/slut shaming" is going to change that. Like I said earlier, women are free to have their preferences in what they want in a man (right height, "right" race, right income, etc) and men are free to have their preferences. The fact that so many of you are so angry at the fact that men with sense don't want to settle with a female that has had a lot of sexual partners is almost comical.