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Everyone should stop making judgment on people. You do not know how it feels until you are in their shoes. Yes it is not wise to use drugs, but it already happened to him. I rather answer his question and leave than staying here and criticize the guy. It is easy for you to sit down and criticize people than you are being in the situation he was. It can be "peer pressure" or "forced" or whatever he called, but I know this guy is in great worry, and needed comfort. When you are a good caring pharmacist, you care for people. Not only you give them knowledge, but also words of comfort for many of them are in great distress because of the diseases they are bearing. Imagine the next time you are committed a serious mistake, how would you feel if anyone is telling you a *****?
You're making judgments yourself when you say "you do not know how it feels unless you are in their shoes." How do you know whose shoes I've been in and haven't been in?
Anyway, I do not have a problem with his mistake, and I'm not criticizing him for his mistake - I have a problem when he uses excuses to cover his mistake. It's that point I talked about it. And what's wrong with criticizing something that IS wrong? If it's wrong, it should be pointed out; otherwise, he will make the same mistake over and over again. And I'm not talking about doing the weed mistake. Go back to the example I made - this guy got his job, but again, due to his "idiot friends" who "forced" him to binge drink for 4 hours before coming into work, is now getting a review on whether he will be fired or not. He comes on here with this exact story and asks for advice on this topic. Do you really think no one should say anything about his actions or his excuses? That all anyone should do is answer his question and walk away? I think that's a danger and a sign of lack of caring to his potential customers and patients. There's all types of caring.
And not to mention, if I made a serious mistake, and someone told me I was a ***** in making that mistake, I'd probably agree with them. I'm more about the "tough love" than coddling someone uselessly, only to have them make the same dumb mistake over and over again. This guy doesn't have a terminal disease. This guy might lose a job because of a mistake he himself made and admitted to. Does that really warrant the same kind of "caring" that people with terminal diseases get?