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It's common on SDN-and some other forums (should have seen the thread in the med students section) to support the the idea that you shouldn't dare question a woman's past... even if she's former hooker or banged 110 guys unprotected, you should be very accepting of her, and never even think about questioning her past.
My best friend was like that because he sort of got brainwashed into it in college. I had a conversation with him where he was trying to show he was Mr. Tolerance and I asked him "what if she was a porn star? Would you care?" And he goes "no, that would be fine because that's the past." I was like "OK, seriously? That's your problem, not mine. I have zero problem telling someone I wouldn't date a porn star. Or even someone who hadn't had that crazy number of sexual partners." And I'm not alone. If people didn't take that into consideration, then nobody WOULD lie about "their number."
By the way, no offense, but even though I agree with most of your views on relationships, I think the issue is you come off as a "pick up artist" kind of guy. Like, when you talk about how you're jacked or how people should lift to get women, that just brings to mind guys who walk around in muscle shirts and who are flexing all the time. I'm not saying they don't get women, but I think it's not exactly the type of crowd that runs on a medical forum. We had a guy in medical school, for example, who was really into his body and would actually go out to clubs and (this is not a joke), while he was dancing with girls, pull his shirt up and hold it in his mouth so that they could see his abs. I'm sure he got action, but he was sort of viewed as a douche.
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