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And so it begins.... the match made in heaven.Indian men are really HOT....I didn't think so before but I do now.
A very important thing to learn in life it to be able to make anyone you need to like you LIKE YOU. It makes life much easier trust me. LOL...it's always easier to attract bees with honey....
If you always seem to have people "against" you then YOU most likely have the problem.
I been in school my entire life and I have never had an "unreasonable" professor or anyone that was out to "get" me.
If you know how to act NO ONE will be out to "get" you.
And so it begins.... the match made in heaven.
Welcome back gurl. We've missed you.
A very important thing to learn in life it to be able to make anyone you need to like you LIKE YOU. It makes life much easier trust me. LOL...it's always easier to attract bees with honey....
If you always seem to have people "against" you then YOU most likely have the problem.
I been in school my entire life and I have never had an "unreasonable" professor or anyone that was out to "get" me.
If you know how to act NO ONE will be out to "get" you.
Just wanted to update my situation before this thread really gets out of hand. My appeal was approved due to the fact that the "preceptors' story did not add up. I guess she was embellishing the story to get it to make sense and got caught in her own lie. Thanks for everyone who supported me and said encouraging things to me during this difficult past few days and realized that just because you are a student does not mean you have to Kiss anyone's a%$$.
Just wanted to update my situation before this thread really gets out of hand. My appeal was approved due to the fact that the "preceptors' story did not add up. I guess she was embellishing the story to get it to make sense and got caught in her own lie. Thanks for everyone who supported me and said encouraging things to me during this difficult past few days and realized that just because you are a student does not mean you have to Kiss anyone's a%$$.
are you crazy....your tuition pays for liability insurance for each student...you better talk to your rotations coordinator and if they don't fix ****...go straight to the dean...if that **** doesnt get resolved go the president of the school who is charge of both undergrad and graduate....if that doesnt work, get a lawyer...start sending emails, dont do **** by phone or talking...that way you leave a paper trail and hold that person liable...i've heard of some preceptor that are straight ass holes....if she said dont print it and you printed it then it was kinda your fault....good luck....it chaps my ass to see those preceptors abuse their power...what they fail to realize is that one day that student will one day be higher than them on the totem pole and karma is a bitch....
And so it begins.... the match made in heaven.
Welcome back gurl. We've missed you.
I agree with this. Did I just say that?!?!
"Make people like you??"" You mean "sucking up." Must be hard for you It's a professional setting, not a business venture. Both sides should come into the rotation with expectations of respect and treat one another like "colleagues," with the preceptor having more experience. I don't know how much of the real world you are in, but some people are a-holes. That's just the way it is. And just FYI, sucking up can come back to bite you. As a future pharmacist, I would suggest be very knowledgeable and professional and hard-working. If you do that, you don't need to suck up to get to where you want in this setting.
"Always" seem to have people against me (or the OP). I don't know where you got that idea from. I had one irrational preceptor/pharmacist in all my 8-9 years in this field.
Then that's great that has been your experience. We all wish everyone in life never have to meet a single obstacle or hardship. It would be a perfect world if everyone we meet likes us and vice versa.
SHC,
This is the best advice I have ever seen you give on this forum.
Insightful SHC.
Awww...the vampire owl is soooooo CUTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Holy hell, I agree with SHC.
I don't know where all these power-hungry preceptors are; I never had one. Most of them were too busy doing their usual jobs plus carrying my dead student weight to worry about screwing me over.
We don't have these preceptors in unicorn land. Or maybe I'm one and all my students have been too scared to put it in their evals these last few years
SHC,
This is the best advice I have ever seen you give on this forum.
Insightful SHC.
I don't mean to attack anyone with what I said.
ALL I mean to say is there are times in life where it's better to conform or be nice or shut up even though YOU might be 100% right anyways.
Well, I had one thing happen to me one time that was kinda stupid but I'll share it since we are sharing stories now. lol
One summer I wanted extra money to go on vacation. I found a waitressing job at a restaurant. The restaurant had all the waitresses put all their tips in a bucket and at the end of the night we all split it evenly.
The manager there however is extremely greedy. She is salaried yet she still wants to "share" our tips!!! She was a bitch.
Also she strongly favors one of the waitresses there!!!
One time I saw her sneak a $10 bill into her favorite waitress's pocket!!!! that's totally ****ED UP b/c it's SHARED TIPS...meaning everyone put ALL their tips in the bucket and split it evenly. NO STEALING PERIOD.
But that manager favored the other waitress and put bills into her pocket and I caught HER!
Well, I went up to her and totally confronted her. I told her she was WRONG for what she did and that the tips are shared. I told her she is pretty much stealing from all the other waitresses myself included! I told her she was TERRIBLE for doing that and that I SAW what she did! I told her she was TERRIBLE PERIOD.
She told the boss what happened.
The boss fired me the next day.
The boss told me the manager has been there for 2 years and I was hired 2 weeks ago. She thinks her staff is perfect and that the manager would NEVER do anything wrong period.
She saids I am new and I am most likely the CAUSE of the problem.
She fired me for it.
That was fine and all b/c I really did NOT need the money...wanted it for a trip that was it.
But now thinking about it....
Hell it was $10!!! I should have shut my mouth and I could have kept the job for a month or two longer and made several thousands of dollars!
What's MORE beneficial for me?
1) Running my mouth like a bad ass and feeling good and looking cool (to myself!) over $10 and then getting fired and losing thousands of potential income...What if I had kids to raise? what if I needed the money? I guess I would be homeless if that was the case.
2) shutting up, realize that it was only $10 and USE SOME COMMON SENSE and I should have known that restaurant owners always side with their management...especially if it's manager versus a NEW HIRER! Who the hell will side with a new hirer and fired someone that's been there for years? COMMON SENSE would have told me I would have LOST for sure.
Will any boss ever fire someone they know for YEARS over someone that they hire two weeks ago? HELL NO.
But I choose to run my mouth anyways which was stupid.
I will never make a mistake like that again.
I just try to weight the pros and cons.
Like the speeding ticket thing. Been pull over twice in my life...the cops let me off both times b/c I was polite/sweet.
Sure I could have cuss the cops out and told them they were idiots for stopping me...but will that really help my case? I think not.
All I am saying is smart people weight their pros and cons.
Running your mouth and not thinking of your consequences (even if you were right) will not be benefical to you. It might feel GOOD to cuss your boss/professor/preceptor out....but who will lose most in this case?
And how is the OP RANTING ON AN INTERNET BOARD running his/her mouth and trying to be a badass? I don't know if people on here associate ranting on an internet board as REAL LIFE?????
Just wanted to update my situation before this thread really gets out of hand. My appeal was approved due to the fact that the "preceptors' story did not add up. I guess she was embellishing the story to get it to make sense and got caught in her own lie. Thanks for everyone who supported me and said encouraging things to me during this difficult past few days and realized that just because you are a student does not mean you have to Kiss anyone's a%$$.
I love that people think the internet is anonymous. It's not. And the OP put up her REAL PICTURE with a thread where she ranted about something to do with school. Not smart. Especially since Google cache will forever associate her picture with her screen name and this thread. If she's lucky, no one at her school will see it. If she's not lucky...
I did the same thing, but 1000x worse. Pharmacy isn't really a small world once you leave the state you were educated in and when school is over, you never have to deal with them ever again. You get to look back and shake your head at the ridiculous, overblown, pretentious nature of pharmacy education.
OP: Just roll your eyes, jump through the idiotic hoops, and you'll graduate. Then, magically, none of this matters.
I love that people think the internet is anonymous. It's not. And the OP put up her REAL PICTURE with a thread where she ranted about something to do with school. Not smart. Especially since Google cache will forever associate her picture with her screen name and this thread. If she's lucky, no one at her school will see it. If she's not lucky...
Will any boss ever fire someone they know for YEARS over someone that they hire two weeks ago? HELL NO.
I pointed this out earlier in the thread.
There's another board I post on where there's a woman whose ex-husband is about to go on trial for raping their daughter - and it looks like a very open-and-shut case, with considerable medical and other evidence - and this woman uses her name, and her daughter's name (which is unique enough to identify both of them), as well as numerous photographs of both of them and her new boyfriend too, and the profile has her full name in it, with Facebook and Twitter links and the name of the town where they all live. And despite numerous people pointing out that it's not a good idea for her to do all this, she refuses to delete or take down any of it.
If he's acquitted, she could find herself in some very big trouble.
Really? I got fired in favor of someone who was several months away from graduation, although as most of you know, I know now that they did me a bigger favor than I could ever have imagined at the time. I found out later that this place was systematically getting rid of all the people at the top of the pay scale who were at low risk for suing, and the hospital systems in the area where I live now did the same thing, leaving out the "low risk for suing" thing. One of the people they cut had been there more than 20 years, and another is nearly 60 years old and has a child who is permanently disabled.
I'm surprised the prosecutors haven't told her to keep that stuff to a minimum. When we were going through the trial of the man who killed our daughter, we were told in NO uncertain terms to limit our online activity to avoid doing anything to avoid jeopardizing the trial. So we did. Why even take the risk? People can be dumb sometimes.
As to your other post, yeah... OP is JUST like Rosa Parks. LMAO
I get what you are trying to say completely, and most are valid. But the OP's misfortune is totally unrelated to the scenarios you just described.
This is off topic from the OP where I agree it was worth trying to appeal. But I hate the fact that every student who comes to these boards with a situation thinks it is NEVER their fault. Some times it is true, but 95% of the time it is because of something stupid they did.
I think the OP's misfortune is the same thing as getting a speeding ticket.
I know I shouldn't speed but I did it anyways.
The OP's preceptor told her she shouldn't print out private information about a patient. (It might sound stupid to you) but if a preceptor TOLD YOU..."Please don't do it" and you still did it anyways. Then it's the same thing as speeding and doing anything else you know you shouldn't do.
Preceptor is here to teach you. They will have their own rules. They will tell you the rules they want you to follow. If you do NOT follow it they can dismiss you from the site.
Are some of their rules stupid? Of course. But should I just NOT follow it b/c I don't want to? I don't think that's a good idea.
The school most likely side with the OP b/c the preceptor most likely have NOT filled out her midpoint evaluation.
My preceptor told me one time he had the WORST student in the history of the world. The student was terrible.
He told me he wanted to fail him b/c he deserve to fail, but then he saids he most likely can't b/c that school will not allow a preceptor to fail a student if the preceptor never fill out his or her midpoint evaluation.
If the preceptor WARN the student of their unacceptable behavior on a midpoint evaluation...and the student did NOT change...then the preceptor could fail the student.
But if the preceptor DID NOT fill out a midpoint evaluation....then he can't fail the student at the end b/c he never actually "warn" the student of their poor performance.
That is the only reason I can think of that the OP got another chance. The preceptor have not fill out an midpoint evaluation yet and the OP didn't have any "warnings" of her poor behavior (not following preceptor's requests)...so therefore the OP was given another chance.
If the preceptor fill out a midpoint evaluations saying the OP was bad at following directions and she did not change...then she would have failed.
I like how there are individuals in here who know smack about my situation and assume one thing or another. Midpoint and final eval were given to me days ago. SDN has forever lost its credibility to me. I think there are more intellectual discussions to be had on facebook. Shameful.
Who are you and what did you do with SHC?
Okay fine. I'll give you the advice you want to hear.
You are 100% right.
Your preceptor was WRONG for making policies for students to follow on a rotation. She should have allow you to do whatever you wish you wanted to do on a rotation.
Her rule was stupid and you are 100% right for breaking it each time.
Your preceptor owes you an apology for telling you to follow her policy. That was wrong.
Just FYI, in life if you ever feel that a rule is stupid you don't have to follow it. You may do whatever you wish to do b/c you are always right.
Better now?
I think the OP's misfortune is the same thing as getting a speeding ticket.
I know I shouldn't speed but I did it anyways.
The OP's preceptor told her she shouldn't print out private information about a patient. (It might sound stupid to you) but if a preceptor TOLD YOU..."Please don't do it" and you still did it anyways. Then it's the same thing as speeding and doing anything else you know you shouldn't do.
Preceptor is here to teach you. They will have their own rules. They will tell you the rules they want you to follow. If you do NOT follow it they can dismiss you from the site.
Are some of their rules stupid? Of course. But should I just NOT follow it b/c I don't want to? I don't think that's a good idea.
The school most likely side with the OP b/c the preceptor most likely have NOT filled out her midpoint evaluation.
My preceptor told me one time he had the WORST student in the history of the world. The student was terrible.
He told me he wanted to fail him b/c he deserve to fail, but then he saids he most likely can't b/c that school will not allow a preceptor to fail a student if the preceptor never fill out his or her midpoint evaluation.
If the preceptor WARN the student of their unacceptable behavior on a midpoint evaluation...and the student did NOT change...then the preceptor could fail the student.
But if the preceptor DID NOT fill out a midpoint evaluation....then he can't fail the student at the end b/c he never actually "warn" the student of their poor performance.
That is the only reason I can think of that the OP got another chance. The preceptor have not fill out an midpoint evaluation yet and the OP didn't have any "warnings" of her poor behavior (not following preceptor's requests)...so therefore the OP was given another chance.
If the preceptor fill out a midpoint evaluations saying the OP was bad at following directions and she did not change...then she would have failed.
Okay fine. I'll give you the advice you want to hear.
You are 100% right.
Your preceptor was WRONG for making policies for students to follow on a rotation. She should have allow you to do whatever you wish you wanted to do on a rotation.
Her rule was stupid and you are 100% right for breaking it each time.
Your preceptor owes you an apology for telling you to follow her policy. That was wrong.
Just FYI, in life if you ever feel that a rule is stupid you don't have to follow it. You may do whatever you wish to do b/c you are always right.
Better now?
Preceptor: You have to wash the bathroom every day before you leave... ok? Or else you will fail. I'll check this with the janitor before I come in every morning.
SHC: Sure will. You make the laws. I must follow.
Your examples and analogies are lousy.
"Don't print PHI" is different than "Go scrub toilets."
But they make the policies/rules???
No matter how stupid it is, how do you think SHC would react? From her posts, she would do exactly that just to pass.
Do you agree preceptors can make their own rules, that can pass/fail students if they don't follow? The absurdity .
I never knew there were these types of preceptors out there (or that prevalent) and the students with no backbone No wonder more pharmacy schools keep popping up. They just plug in whoever to precept students with zero accountability.
But they make the policies/rules???
No matter how stupid it is, how do you think SHC would react? From her posts, she would do exactly that just to pass.
Do you agree preceptors can make their own rules, that can pass/fail students if they don't follow? The absurdity .
I never knew there were these types of preceptors out there (or that prevalent) and the students with no backbone No wonder more pharmacy schools keep popping up. They just plug in whoever to precept students with zero accountability.
Like I said, your example about cleaning the bathroom is dumb. And that's not what SHC meant. She was pointing out that the preceptor said "don't print PHI." It's not a totally unreasonable request, and it's related to patient privacy, etc. So the reasonable student would just comply. Cleaning the bathroom is not reasonable, is not related to pharmaceutical care, is not part of learning to be a pharmacist, and is not tied to any sort of educational outcome. So yeah, your example stinks.