LOL. Typical female response.
You have the image of an pro bodybuilder in your head (who's like 260lbs at <5% body fat and on extreme doses of a variety of steroids and peptides) and you're comparing that to typical jacked guys. For one, most guys will never get that big unless they want to get fat as well. Second, it is impossible to walk around with that low of body fat and maintain that much mass for anything more than a small period of time.
The guy in the picture also, I can guarantee you would find attractive if you had seen him in his daily look (since he doesn't walk around most of the year at that body fat level).
On an interesting side note (perhaps to the OP), the bigger I got... the more female attention I got. It was almost linear. But for some reason girls would always be like "oh don't get too big though! it'll look bad." *rolleyes*
Anyway, I'm no longer concerned with bulking/physique that much, I compete nationally/internationally in powerlifting now.