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My only real issue with my wealthier classmates is that many of them try to play up any minor difficulty they had in life in some sort of attempt to gain clout. "I struggled with this one minor thing and I overcame it! I struggled just as much as you guys who had parents making less than 50K a year, went to **** public schools, etc." I won't shame them for the luck of having wealthy parents, but don't try and kid yourself into believing you had a similarly challenging situation growing up and especially don't try to bull**** me about it. There is no pecking order to struggle and it doesn't make them look any better to those who can recognize their exaggerations.
My issue is people who brag that they're not going to have loans, or really even if they just kinda dismiss it like "well i wont have any loans so..."
To me its pretty tone-deaf to brag about it when having hundreds of thousands of debt with all the uncertainty in medicine compounded with its natural stressors isn't too fun. If it was me I would only mention it if directly asked and definitely acknowledge how lucky I was.