I think I have a reasonable explanation beyond wanting to brag and make myself feel good at others' expense concerning why my first SDN post was to tell my MCAT score. Maybe it will help some of you understand things from a new perspective.
Those of you who are college students might gripe and complain about how annoying other pre-meds are, but at least you have other pre-meds who are going through the process with you, and who understand what and how you feel as you all suffer through it together. This experience is very different for those of us who are non-trads; we tend to be relatively isolated. In my case, I'm 30 and a grad student. I don't have any pre-med advisor to even give me BAD advice (
), and my friends are all thinking about post docs and their kids, not about taking the MCAT and filling out medical school applications. I do know several college students who are applying from my university, but they are my students, which makes discussing my apps with them somewhat awkward and even inappropriate. After all, it is part of my job to mentor *them.* My parents are supportive, but again, they are not fellow comrades-at-arms. I think we can all agree that people who have never attempted the MCAT can't ever really understand what it's like the way that those of us who have gone through it do. I've actually had some co-workers ask why I couldn't get a perfect 45 like those whiz kids who ace the SAT.
When I checked my score that night, it shocked and amazed me. I did want to talk about it, and I wanted to talk about it with someone who would understand what it meant, and who had gone through the same summer of hell studying for it that I had gone through. One of my students had told me about SDN a few months earlier, but I hadn't ever bothered logging on here before. That night was the first time that I felt that now *I* needed someone whom *I* could talk to for once. I come on here, and I see dozens of other people posting scores and talking about their experiences, too, and for the first time, I was part of the pre-med group.
I am happy to do what I can to help others on SDN because of how much so many of you on SDN have done to help me. SDN certainly has its faults and blemishes, but I keep coming back here because SDN reminds me that no matter how hard things get, I'm not in this alone. There are literally thousands of people nation-wide who are going through this process, including hundreds of other non-trads. I've even met several friends through SDN. Some are just pen-pals, and I've personally met others and become friends with them outside of SDN as well.
I hope that you will all be willing to cut one another some slack, both here on SDN and in real life as well. We are going to be future colleagues some day, so we might as well begin being collegial right now.
to you all.
-Q