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ToothCandy4U
Ever since I was little, I detest the idea of changing my last name for marriage. I felt that it is unfair.
Especially when I see a letter addressed to Mr. and Mrs. [husband's last name], I am very furious to see that my name is reduced to "Mrs." I feel like I am stripped away from my family and my own name doesn't hold any existance in this world.
Although nowadays women keep their maiden name after marriage, I often meet people openly questioning my decision of keeping my last name. Also, sometimes my husband's family member makes me feel guilty.
Yes, some people use hyphen to combine both names, but I do not like the idea of having such a long last name. Or some people take husband's last name but keep the maiden name as middle name. It is a good compromise but I still feel uneasy.
Sometimes, I am tired of correcting people and explaining that I still use my maiden name.
We don't have a child yet but when we do, will our child have my husband's last name by default? It will break my heart to have a different last name from our child.
Since I cannot decide which last name I am going to use for long run, which name should I use for national board exam? Is it easy to request the change of name for a certificate?
My husband supports whatever my decision I make but he also prefers that I take his last name. Part of me I want to take his last name to avoid any confusions but I cannot bring myself to take the action.
Although I live in the city, I don't know any woman who is keeping her last name! Am I alone?
Especially when I see a letter addressed to Mr. and Mrs. [husband's last name], I am very furious to see that my name is reduced to "Mrs." I feel like I am stripped away from my family and my own name doesn't hold any existance in this world.
Although nowadays women keep their maiden name after marriage, I often meet people openly questioning my decision of keeping my last name. Also, sometimes my husband's family member makes me feel guilty.
Yes, some people use hyphen to combine both names, but I do not like the idea of having such a long last name. Or some people take husband's last name but keep the maiden name as middle name. It is a good compromise but I still feel uneasy.
Sometimes, I am tired of correcting people and explaining that I still use my maiden name.
We don't have a child yet but when we do, will our child have my husband's last name by default? It will break my heart to have a different last name from our child.
Since I cannot decide which last name I am going to use for long run, which name should I use for national board exam? Is it easy to request the change of name for a certificate?
My husband supports whatever my decision I make but he also prefers that I take his last name. Part of me I want to take his last name to avoid any confusions but I cannot bring myself to take the action.
Although I live in the city, I don't know any woman who is keeping her last name! Am I alone?