I've searched around different med school forums a bit and I haven't found much that applies to our situation, so I need some help and advice. This will probably be long, but I'll try to be as succinct as possible.
Husband is 34 and is trying to get into med school. We're awaiting the results of his MCAT. Should he get in and decide to go, we'll be living off of student loans. Why? I'm 32 and currently struggling with awful chronic pain due to degenerative disc disease. I start seeing a neurologist at the end of the month, but right now, I can't work (I even had to drop the one class I was taking because the pain is just too overwhelming). I can't stand for long periods of time. Walking hurts. Sitting hurts. Laying hurts. Everything hurts, and I'm exhausted from just dealing with the pain 24/7.
My biggest concern is health insurance when dh is in school. I've heard some pretty awful things about student insurance. What does it cover? Will it cover regular doctor visits and things like neurologists? Will it cover follow-up MRIs? Pain medication? Anything?
To throw another spanner into the works, my dh wants me to have a baby while he's in med school. I would absolutely love another child (I have a 10 year old from my first marriage), but with my health problems, I'm not altogether convinced that this is a good idea, especially if A., the student insurance doesn't cover much and we rack up huge medical bills (I didn't have an easy pregnancy with my son, and my back problems present other challenges), and B., dh won't be available as much as I might need him due to my physical challenges.
This is causing a lot of grief and stress between us; we've just started seeing a marriage counselor over it. I'd like the opinion of people who have been there and done that, or are in the middle of it right now. I don't want to kill his dreams, but I also don't want to spend the next four plus years racking up huge medical bills and struggling with worse pain than I am now, you know? This whole past year has been a nightmare for me, pain-wise, and all this extra stress doesn't help.
I'd love to hear your thoughts. Thank you for reading this far.
Husband is 34 and is trying to get into med school. We're awaiting the results of his MCAT. Should he get in and decide to go, we'll be living off of student loans. Why? I'm 32 and currently struggling with awful chronic pain due to degenerative disc disease. I start seeing a neurologist at the end of the month, but right now, I can't work (I even had to drop the one class I was taking because the pain is just too overwhelming). I can't stand for long periods of time. Walking hurts. Sitting hurts. Laying hurts. Everything hurts, and I'm exhausted from just dealing with the pain 24/7.
My biggest concern is health insurance when dh is in school. I've heard some pretty awful things about student insurance. What does it cover? Will it cover regular doctor visits and things like neurologists? Will it cover follow-up MRIs? Pain medication? Anything?
To throw another spanner into the works, my dh wants me to have a baby while he's in med school. I would absolutely love another child (I have a 10 year old from my first marriage), but with my health problems, I'm not altogether convinced that this is a good idea, especially if A., the student insurance doesn't cover much and we rack up huge medical bills (I didn't have an easy pregnancy with my son, and my back problems present other challenges), and B., dh won't be available as much as I might need him due to my physical challenges.
This is causing a lot of grief and stress between us; we've just started seeing a marriage counselor over it. I'd like the opinion of people who have been there and done that, or are in the middle of it right now. I don't want to kill his dreams, but I also don't want to spend the next four plus years racking up huge medical bills and struggling with worse pain than I am now, you know? This whole past year has been a nightmare for me, pain-wise, and all this extra stress doesn't help.
I'd love to hear your thoughts. Thank you for reading this far.