Well, that's true. But I didn't get the impression that Buckeye(OH) had "ordered" his fellow student to get his gloves.
We clearly read it differently. Perhaps because he referred to the other student as his "competition", gloated that he matched there over the other student and then was rude to agranulocytosis in a further response, made me read more into his behavior than you did.
If everyone is already scrubbed and starting, I think a lot of students feel a bit pressured to "hurry up and scrub" too.
Understandable.
So I think that asking your fellow student to do a favor for you and pull a pair of gloves isn't all that bad. Is it any different than asking your fellow student to explain to the intern why you'll need to be a few minutes late to rounds, or to print out an extra copy of the census for you?
IMHO, yes it is different - apples and oranges. Here you are asking another student to do something for you that:
a) you can easily do yourself
b) he is not already doing otherwise
If the student is already pulling some gloves, its not a big deal to ask them to also get you a pair. If they are printing out the patient list, not a big deal for them to click "2" for number of copies printed.
But if you are asking them to perform an activity that they were not already involved in, that is easy for you to do, I see that as completely different.
Hah, unless you have to work with one of the scrub nurses from hell who make you wait ON PURPOSE just to exert their authority over the lowest rung of the totem pole.
Then it can take a good 3 minutes.
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Clearly, there are scrub nurses that are on power trips and do this kind of crap. We've all seen it. (You have not worked with levels of suckiness until you have worked at hospitals without residents where the scrubs have no idea about how to assist a surgeon and get pissy when you try and correct them. /my bitter rant
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But do you really think that if you are there waiting to give the scrub nurse your gloves (which you don't have to do, you can just drop them on their table), that the attending would blame YOU for not already being scrubbed in? If they are THAT obtuse and not noticing that the scrub nurse is delaying you, then perhaps you have a point, but I would think that would be a rare situation.
At any rate, what really matters is to understand the culture of your program and what the attendings expect. Since this was NOT the culture at any hospital I trained at, I would find it odd for one student to ask another (especially if one were timid and the one asking, clearly the more aggressive) to pull their gloves. It would make me wonder how much else he is "asking" the other student do to for him. I have seen aggressive surgery students do this to their more timid colleagues all the time, dumping ward work on them while they run to the OR to kiss up to the attending and Chief resident. This is perhaps why I am so jaded about these sorts of behaviors.