Ok Chief,
I'm going to try again and I need you to read carefully. Ready? Here we go...
When another administrator already puts out a statement as to the reason of the violation (especially when stated its a graphic violent death video) their is always going to be questions (who was provoked, why was it posted, so on and so forth). Here's the problem....
The TOS violation was in the video clip and not the events surrounding it. Seeing that some viewers were starting to justify that this video was like any other video without actually knowing what it was, it was an important lesson to explain to the forum the grounds of the violation and the details of the clip. So, now that you have an understanding as to why I decided to reveal the brief details of the clip, you can see how pointless it would now be to focus your energy on who started what or who was provoked.
Our focus however is the violation & not type out the names of every single user involved in the now-closed-video-discussion and give other users an unnecessary or unwanted platform. Leading to the specific thread doesn't help the parameters either.
Now: take a nap, kiss your parents / wife / husband / dog / cat / or your pillow if you live alone, eat a balanced breakfast, do some pushups, vent about the big bad mods (or just me that's fine as well), then get back in the forums and keep contributing in the areas you would like to remain involved in. Or (as you implied) take your boredom elsewhere if you wish to do so. Second best is reddit though I'd start there before shopping around elsewhere in the deep corners of the web.