Hi,
This is all new to me and I really could use some advice/survival tips
Ive been dating a Chinese woman I met online. She was in her 4th yr of med school when we met in March. We really clicked and hit it off right from the start. She asked me to attend her graduation and I did.
So for the last 4 mos weve been dating and have become much closer
3rd month into the relationship she wanted me to meet her parents.
They are from China (They speak no English) but they like me and I think they are great.
She just started her residency at the end of June.
We talk daily via email and/or phone.
And, currently, see ea. other at least 1x a week.
She does make time for me although lately our dates seem a little rushed.
I will never complain to her because I know shes dealing w/a lot right now.
Not only the Residency but her parents are with her for 6 mos. Thats stressful enough! They go back to China in Sept.
Prior to her residency we spoke about me moving closer to her (She lives about 50mi away) and I agreed that we live too far apart and that I would look for a place that is closer.
I am moving at the end of July.
Actually I found a place near the hospital where she is doing her residency. She is a D.O. residency is 3yrs.
I told her I found a place closer to her house and she said yea and its closer to the hospital too hmmmm .
Anyway Im in love w/her but havent told her yet. I will soon.
I have a feeling she feels the same, if not shes probably close
Does it really get better after residency? She also has to entertain her parents on the weekends as well so I think after they go back to China things will calm down a bit at home for her too.
I cant be too upset she really does make an effort to talk everyday and make at least some time on the weekends.
Thoughts anyone?
This is all new to me and I really could use some advice/survival tips
Ive been dating a Chinese woman I met online. She was in her 4th yr of med school when we met in March. We really clicked and hit it off right from the start. She asked me to attend her graduation and I did.
So for the last 4 mos weve been dating and have become much closer
3rd month into the relationship she wanted me to meet her parents.
They are from China (They speak no English) but they like me and I think they are great.
She just started her residency at the end of June.
We talk daily via email and/or phone.
And, currently, see ea. other at least 1x a week.
She does make time for me although lately our dates seem a little rushed.
I will never complain to her because I know shes dealing w/a lot right now.
Not only the Residency but her parents are with her for 6 mos. Thats stressful enough! They go back to China in Sept.
Prior to her residency we spoke about me moving closer to her (She lives about 50mi away) and I agreed that we live too far apart and that I would look for a place that is closer.
I am moving at the end of July.
Actually I found a place near the hospital where she is doing her residency. She is a D.O. residency is 3yrs.
I told her I found a place closer to her house and she said yea and its closer to the hospital too hmmmm .
Anyway Im in love w/her but havent told her yet. I will soon.
I have a feeling she feels the same, if not shes probably close
Does it really get better after residency? She also has to entertain her parents on the weekends as well so I think after they go back to China things will calm down a bit at home for her too.
I cant be too upset she really does make an effort to talk everyday and make at least some time on the weekends.
Thoughts anyone?