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This thread kills me. But it is an entertaining death.
Another thing that annoys me... it feels like most of the white girls in my class are Jewish. Did you know if you marry a Jewish girl you need to raise your kids Jewish and get a circumcision? Fuuuuck that. Plus all those genetic disorders kinda scare me off.
not if they love you enough, if you are trully her man, she will forsake her jew ways and pursue you into the ends of the world.
I guess no one here has heard of the joint family system; then again, not everyone is privileged with that experience.cool if you're not gonna have kids, but if you are, then good luck with your dysfunctional kid.
I've noticed a trend-- and this might be just at my school-- but it bothers me all the same.
I'm fortunate enough to attend a top 10 medical school; I worked so hard to get to where I am that I never really put much thought into dating. I figured I could simply make up for lost time while at medical school.
What I didn't account for is that the vast majority of guys in our class are taken (we're all about mid-20s). That itself is fine- what's more disconcerting, is that most of these guys have long-term relationships with women in much less rigorous professions (i.e. art, high-school teachers, nonprofit work etc.) No disrespect to these professions, and I'm sure they can be fairly challenging because I've worked in some of these fields, but I all in all I see very few of these guys dating women in medicine. From the handful that are, they rarely ever date girls in med school (i.e. there are some in pharm). There's a stark difference in our class with the guys being taken and the girls-- good-looking, clever, and talented-- being single.
In all honestly, it seems like being accomplished has actually HURT our chances, whereas being in medical school has seemingly helped the guys. How do we address this?
That's just antisemiticAnother thing that annoys me... it feels like most of the white girls in my class are Jewish. Did you know if you marry a Jewish girl you need to raise your kids Jewish and get a circumcision? Fuuuuck that. Plus all those genetic disorders kinda scare me off.
I strongly support this proposition although it would be more accurate to say she should start spending more time in the boxTime to start thinking outside of the box:
Everyone comes with problems, and you don't really get to pick themGirls in medicine come with medicine problems. Girls outside medicine come with problems that I get to pick.
This is why I am dating an English teacher. Plus, the last thing I want to hear about is medicine when I am home.
Everyone comes with problems, and you don't really get to pick them
how is not wanting to get circumsized and have a say in your children education antisemitic.That's just antisemitic
I strongly support this proposition although it would be more accurate to say she should start spending more time in the box
For real tho Engineers are the way to go.
This is what goes on in the allopathic section?
>< no more dentists allowed
I mean you realize that there is more than just 1 way to be Jewish, and basically saying ew Jews is pretty ****ty.how is not wanting to get circumsized and have a say in your children education antisemitic.
Baby I can handle your problems any dayTruth. I have lots of problems.
I've noticed a trend-- and this might be just at my school-- but it bothers me all the same.
I'm fortunate enough to attend a top 10 medical school; I worked so hard to get to where I am that I never really put much thought into dating. I figured I could simply make up for lost time while at medical school.
What I didn't account for is that the vast majority of guys in our class are taken (we're all about mid-20s). That itself is fine- what's more disconcerting, is that most of these guys have long-term relationships with women in much less rigorous professions (i.e. art, high-school teachers, nonprofit work etc.) No disrespect to these professions, and I'm sure they can be fairly challenging because I've worked in some of these fields, but I all in all I see very few of these guys dating women in medicine. From the handful that are, they rarely ever date girls in med school (i.e. there are some in pharm). There's a stark difference in our class with the guys being taken and the girls-- good-looking, clever, and talented-- being single.
In all honestly, it seems like being accomplished has actually HURT our chances, whereas being in medical school has seemingly helped the guys. How do we address this?
You pretty much skirt most of the genetic stuff when you're a non-Jew marrying a Jew. It's mostly the narrow genetic profile of the Jewish community that leads to so much weird stuff.Another thing that annoys me... it feels like most of the white girls in my class are Jewish. Did you know if you marry a Jewish girl you need to raise your kids Jewish and get a circumcision? Fuuuuck that. Plus all those genetic disorders kinda scare me off.
I've also noticed this- you usually don't see a guy that's a hospitalist dating a female urologist or a FM dude dating a girl in ortho, it's basically always the other way around.Dual-physician marriages are common but I have noticed a common theme. Its usually the male with the "more demanding" specialty. The Ortho dude marrying a Derm chick. The Gen surgeon male marrying a FM/Peds chick, etc.
This is what goes on in the allopathic section?
I don't think medical school is the place to start looking for a suitor. Considering you're in a top 10 school, you should have known that you'd likely be too busy to nurture a budding romance. However, that doesn't mean that people don't find love in med school. That being said, I don't think having such a narrow pool (men in your medical school) of potential mates is a good idea. Do you need to date a doctor? If so, maybe that's where the dating problems are starting. Dating someone in a less rigorous field says nothing about how they are as a person or mate. They can absolutely be your intellectual and emotional equal despite not being a medical student or doctor. I find it interesting that you are disconcerted with the fact that men are "dating down" when they could be dating an equal or greater accomplished person, even if they were not as compatible with that person. To me, that is a major dating red flag.
I admit that I had envisioned myself marrying a doctor or financier. However, I fell in love with an engineering student who worked full time through college, landed a mediocre job after graduation, and who differed from me in upbringing and world experience. I'm madly in love with him after 5 years and I consider myself a better person and better future physician because of our relationship. Long story short (too late!), don't put all of your eggs in one basket!
How many doctors do you guys know that date nurses or other mid-level providers? Is two people in healthcare professions in that scenario good for building a family?
Lol thats funny but it was a serious question!
How many doctors do you guys know that date nurses or other mid-level providers? Is two people in healthcare professions in that scenario good for building a family?
How many doctors do you guys know that date nurses or other mid-level providers? Is two people in healthcare professions in that scenario good for building a family?
No it leads to discord as nurses are being indoctrinated with the nonsense that nps are just as good if not better than docs (pretty soon they will drop the just as good part). There will be constant fighting as they continually compare their degree path to yours as if it were even close and assure you that they won't claim the title of Doctor when they are practicing. Just a bunch of bs due to huge inferiority complexed. F that
Rns are cool though
Sup bb are you a dentite girl?
joint family system? it's not hard to see why 2 parents working 60+ hours a week leads to dysfunctional kids.
no joke, look at the kids that have dropped out of your school or taken any extra year, 80+ % at mine come from two physician families.
you can be naive and think you're going to rewrite the book on parenting, but it's pretty clear it takes a significant amount of time. as does being a physician.
anyone that uses the word privileged, I automatically feel sorry for you.
Dating other classmates is risky. I really don't advise it.
I think by "joint family system" he is referring to the fact that in some other cultures (namely Indian culture) it is considered normal and beneficial to live with extended family, and everyone chips in on raising the young ones.
Start hanging out with the PhD, Pharm, OT, RT, PA, MPH or other professions students. There's a Jack for every Jill out there.
To the OP and other medical students,
Have you consider that despite couples are together prior to or during medical school, that they don't necessarily end up staying together? I have seen soooo many times "medical student couples" and they end up being with someone else once residency hits. I've actually witnessed quite a few divorces. So don't be too overly jealous or concern. You are in the better position in my opinion.
I'm sure more than half of you watch Grey's Anatomy, unfortunately, maybe not to that extreme, but humans will be humans and those kind of affairs do happen. I would be surprised if I find a hospital that doesn't have drama.
So if you are a med student and concerned about dating or having a relationship, DONT WORRY... you will definitely find someone. A good amount of physicians will end up with someone in the health related field, simply because its hard for someone to understand our life-style at times.
Bottom line is "Earning potential". If a male physician is "Smart", if he is making less money than his physician wife, then he should be doing part time. Money isn't everything, more money always bring more problem. But no money also creates problem as well. =)
All the other parts are just excuses of not wanting to go out and date or be in a relationship. I have tons of friends who are NOT physicians and would do anything to date a woman who is a physician. =) Its the 21st century, lets get with the program.
Goodluck!
P.S. To the other poster, yes you are correct. I am Gyn-Onc and my wife is FP, and yes, I met her when I was doing my residency. !!!
It seems obvious but apparently a lot of med school women are shocked to realize it. Any female (or male) pre-meds reading this, hear me now: medical school is not a dating service. And "making up for lost time"? Please. If you weren't dating much before you got here don't expect med school to be any different.
Ark is that you?I couldn't get laid at all during college or after. Only after I started medical school did I start seeing the moist pink walls of glory. Medical school, of course, bears no responsibility on the strengthening of my pimp hand but don't discourage guys/gals who haven't been getting any action before they ascend the ivory tower.
I couldn't get laid at all during college or after. Only after I started medical school did I start seeing the moist pink walls of glory. Medical school, of course, bears no responsibility on the strengthening of my pimp hand but don't discourage guys/gals who haven't been getting any action before they ascend the ivory tower.
I think by "joint family system" he is referring to the fact that in some other cultures (namely Indian culture) it is considered normal and beneficial to live with extended family, and everyone chips in on raising the young ones.