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NAVY DDS 2010
Does anyone who is currently or has previously served their payback have any opinions as to whether or not the navy hpsp was a damper on their personal life? Yes, I understand the commitment of the military, but if you are in a relationship, has this scholarship affected anyone negatively in a personal way?
Are you asking if the scholarship itself affects the personal life or serving your committment affects your personal life? I am going to assume you are talking about serving the committment after dental school. With that said, being in the miulitary does affect your personal life. To think otherwise would be pure ignorance. When I was on the US Carl Vinson, we were out to sea 27 of 37 months I was attached to the ship. Being away from your family does interfere with your personal life. The thing is how do YOU deal with it. Being on deployments will either make or break a relationship. It is stressful being away from your loved ones. When you come home, adjusting to being with them is also difficult because you both have made separate lives while you are gone. Therefore, there is an adjustment period when coming home.
I will have to say that my wife's and my relationship with each other actually grew while being apart. We forced each other to learn how to make the other feel like we were closer than we really were. We did small things to let each other know we loved them. Did I enjoy having to be away from my wife? No. Do I think I was better off for having been apart? Yes! Because of the deployments, we know how to always make the other know we care even when we don't have the time to spend lots of quality time.
Don't worry about how being in the military may affect your personal relationship. Realistically, if you cannot endure a deployment apart, then how do you think you will be able to make it through other stressful events in your life.