@applejackcrunch, I think your attitude towards how you want to practice is awesome. But the way you deliver the message by saying MD's don't do this or that can really step on some toes as seen by the responses to your statements. Tbh, you really can't generalize and say that MDs don't teach compassionate care. I think it's definitely being emphasized. Just look at the courses on physicians as healers, started by Rachel Remen, MD:
http://www.ishiprograms.org/about/rachel-naomi-remen-md/. We all have the same goals as physicians, to care for our patients.
Just some objective things that I have noticed about my DO classmates, we really don't have many straight outta college students...there's a lot more life experience, and varied backgrounds, different journeys through life to get where we are. I absolutely love my school. It is insane how collaborative the class is, and how you don't feel like people are total gunners, we honestly do a lot of resource sharing etc. I think it helps that tests aren't curved. It's kinda great. That said, you have to balance the regular medical school curriculum that MD's go through AND you have an additional 4 hours of OMM...that is hard.
The idea about viewing the person as a whole is constantly being emphasized from Day 1 because it is a fundamental philosophy of osteopathic medicine and how it's been taught for the past 100 years so really...you can't escape it. Hope you're ready for that. It's definitely something that drew me to osteopathic medicine. The caveat is that in order to practice medicine these days especially primary care, you have maybe 30 minutes or less...I think it might be 15 minutes sometimes to see a patient...and that's it. It is EXTREMELY difficult to "assess the whole person" in 30 minutes or less. Our professors try to teach us how to do this in med skills with questions about social determinants of health, diet, and exercise for the medical history, but in the real world, I really don't know how likely it would be to fit these questions and get meaningful answers. Unless you are able to find a practice/start a practice/make less money to deliver quality care which requires more time with the patient. It's a sad state of affairs and I blame corporate america for making medicine into a business and physicians for allowing it to move in this direction...that's another story.
Not many people plan to use OMM, that is very true. I think you need to come into school with both an open mind, but also remain objective and scientific. There are many techniques you will learn that do not have solid scientific backing -- this is an inherent weakness and I think there is a huge push to conduct more research and find the evidence to back up some of the more effective techniques. I think as more research comes out, we will see many of these techniques incorporated into medicine in general. I shadowed a DO that had a private practice doing OMM only and spent an hour with each patient. His patients loved him and were constantly telling me about how they were benefitting from OMT treatments for fibromyalgia, musculoskeletal trauma, etc. It's anecdotal, but I swear, call it the placebo effect whatever, there is something about certain OMM techniques that work. So don't completely discount it. I'm definitely using it in practice.
Final note: You can easily see the MD rejects stick out like sore thumbs (on SDN too) because they obviously bs-ed their way into an acceptance at an osteopathic school. Don't be one of those self loathing DOs that settled for an osteopathic medical school. I genuinely wanted to go the osteopathic route and it was the best decision I ever made. Good Luck!