I've been on several long vacations - international and domestic - throughout my career. RadOnc IS in fact situated for this. Private groups typically have 8 - 12 weeks off and people go away for long periods of time. I went to India this January and Japan a few weeks ago. And I'm in solo practice at a small hospital.
The key to this are two things
1) It's 80% workplace culture (EXTERNAL)
2) The more you do, the more that will be asked of you. (INTERNAL)
We really need to get over this idea that everything has to be done this moment. Yes, there are certain cases that are truly urgent. Yes, if you are an administrator, as well as clinician, you may not be able to truly "turn off" non clinical activities. That being said, we've gone so far overboard with being connected (phone, text, email, EPIC inbox) that the blame certainly has to go on many individuals that feel you are indispensable. It is morbid to think about, but if you dropped dead today after work today, yes there would be a hard transition, yes the practice may suffer a bit, but life on Earth goes on. People will manage.
Here is a short list of ways to make vacation great again:
1) Do not check your work email. Just don't do it. I don't even have outlook on my phone. This is not an affectation. I am terrible with my phone and especially work e-mail. In a little over a year of not having it, I realized that there was no patient-related value to having email after hours or on weekends (or on vacation). Just log off. Use your personal email for whatever emailing needs you have.
2A) Locums dependent - figure out which locums are good/useful and use them more; allow them full freedom if they are competent enough. They don't have to be you or as good as you (based on whatever metric you've decided), but you have to be okay with that. They are temporary. Try not to judge harshly. Have a very low bar as to what constitutes successful coverage. Here is mine: 1) Be nice to staff 2) Check all images 3) See all pre-scheduled follow ups 4) See inpatients and write a note. 5) See urgent outpatient consults and let me know the plan. 6) Don't piss off the referrings. This is literally it. I will fix the rest if there is an issue in a week or two. It will be okay. I currently have the greatest locums guy and need to get on of my other friends to help out.
2B) Partners - this needs to be discussed. My first practice we had 10 weeks off. We had a very good culture of taking each others patients. Detailed sign-outs were written up. The early years, the day before vacation was horrible. You stayed til late to get your stuff all done. Then, we talked about it and decided that you sort of stopped on last day and you signed out contours. Yes, this meant occasionally you were taking over a post-op gastric case or some bullsh*t, but it meant when you had the same issue you were not there til 8p the night before your flight. Also, you have to give and receive trust. Do not voice your opinion on a 5% dose difference or a fractionation you would not have used (as long as it is standard of care). Do not judge the decisions. Don't mention the one thing on your list they forgot, if they got the rest done.
3) Be organized - this is not easy for me. But, check the schedule for the next 2 weeks and the prior 2 weeks. Make sure all sim orders are complete and the signout says what to do. If you want people to check imaging report, make sure there is something actionable - otherwise, don't make them follow up. Make sure you have out of office reply on email and EPIC. The signout should start earlier and be as detailed as possible. Highlight who should do what. Even if you have one nurse, it should read "PHYLLIS - check on Mrs. So and So about how her diarrhea is doing and then DR. BOONHAUER can write Lomotil". There is rarely "too much" on a sign out. Set up Epic Inbox forwarding and make it clear who is covering.
4) Train the staff - you should become extremely predictable, like they should know when you leave to take a dump routinely. But, seriously, talk about everything with them. They need to be up in your head and know what you want and how you think. If they can channel you to the coverage and to referrings, then it will help you a lot. Not like clinical stuff, but what types of patients need to be seen right away, what is a "social" emergency that needs to be acted upon or can be placated. They should know you and be unafraid to communicate directly with you. They should feel that same comfort with the locums.
5) Be unavailable - if you get a phone call, but not text or voicemail, let them call you again. If it's a text that is not a medical emergency, wait 4-6 hours at the least before responding. Obviously, no email or EPIC Inbox messages should be responded to.
6) Relieving anxiety about being unavailable - take 1 day maybe mid vacation to quickly look through emails if you think this will make you feel better; once you realize the world moves on without you, you don't need to do this any more.
7) Have a day before you start - I have trouble with this, but it makes for a much better return if you come back on Saturday and check email / Inbox on Sunday so all of that is done before you get to work on Monday.
Maybe I'm not as good as others that are dutifully check email and Inbox and contour on vacation, but it makes for a better QOL and happy family that I don't have to disappear mid day to do work stuff. But, if you don't really like your family / friends anyway, then bring the work laptop and go to town!