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Just curious on peoples thoughts/opinions on this topic.
It's totally unecessary. I was horrified when I heard this was common practice in the U.S.cfdavid said:Just curious on peoples thoughts/opinions on this topic.
Doula-2-OB said:I won't do circs. I'll counsel patients as fairly as I humanly can and if they elect to have the procedure I will send them to someone who can do it for them. I won't do it.
There are plenty of reasons to not circ outlined in this thread.
pruritis_ani said:I don't understand why you are so opposed to them. Have you seen one? They are pretty mild, and certainly not traumatic to the child. 90% of the kids slept through the ones I have done, they just chill with a pacifier dipped in glucose soln. Once the numbing is done, there was rarely any crying.
More power to you, if you don't want to. But, I do hope that you at least see one before you get to freaked about it. And, no matter how you feel about it, you owe an unbiased, scientific explanation to the parents. It is their decision to make, not yours.
Doula-2-OB said:Penile/cervical cancer... my sons will have their foreskins as they enter into adulthood and can decide for themselves if their risk is worth removing their foreskin. I wouldn't remove my infant daughter's breasts because we had breast cancer in the family, I would leave her body intact so that she could decide how to proceed as an adult.
I would really love to engage in a debate with someone who is pro-circ and have us switch sides. I'd like someone to convince me about anti-circ, and I would like to try to convince that person to be pro-circ. I think that would encourage a lot of learning on both sides.
Doula-2-OB said:Penile/cervical cancer... my sons will have their foreskins as they enter into adulthood and can decide for themselves if their risk is worth removing their foreskin. I wouldn't remove my infant daughter's breasts because we had breast cancer in the family, I would leave her body intact so that she could decide how to proceed as an adult.
I would really love to engage in a debate with someone who is pro-circ and have us switch sides. I'd like someone to convince me about anti-circ, and I would like to try to convince that person to be pro-circ. I think that would encourage a lot of learning on both sides.
Slitherin said:"my sons will have their foreskins as they enter into adulthood" I hope your sons don't have to experience a foreskin adhesion and have to have a circumcision under general anasthesia when they are 5 y/o like my son did, it was quite traumatic and it convinced me to have our next son circumcised the usual time/way. And I think refusing to do a widely accepted procedure is a little overboard. I can see a Doc refusing to do an abortion, but refusing to do a circumcision? I was a little upset that our OB/GYN did not mention the problems associated with not circumcising. I would have liked to be informed about the possible problems.
Doula-2-OB said:Penile/cervical cancer... my sons will have their foreskins as they enter into adulthood and can decide for themselves if their risk is worth removing their foreskin. I wouldn't remove my infant daughter's breasts because we had breast cancer in the family, I would leave her body intact so that she could decide how to proceed as an adult.
Faebinder said:HUH? Circumcision is reported to have multiple benefits.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/...uids=16724395&query_hl=10&itool=pubmed_docsum
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/...uids=16601492&query_hl=10&itool=pubmed_DocSum
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/...uids=16581731&query_hl=10&itool=pubmed_DocSum
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/...uids=16488287&query_hl=10&itool=pubmed_DocSum
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/...uids=16231970&query_hl=10&itool=pubmed_DocSum
I am not an expert but plenty of published articles out there show reduced risk of UTI, HIV, Syphilis, Chancroid, Herpes (which can lead to cervical cancer in female partner) and finally squamous cell carcinoma of the penis.
pruritis_ani said:Sounds like a reasonable choice for your family. Other families may choose different....btw, if you are comparing mastectomy to circ...well, lets just say it is VERY clear that you have not participated in both of these procedures. I think you will be very surprised when you witness a circ. It is far from a brutal, painful procedure...
I do remember the old switch side debate technique from undergrad. Learned a lot that way, but it typically was used to enhance your ability to rebut the opposing view by being able to anticipate what they would say. Sad to say, but once opinions are formed, rarely are they changed.
I am not pro-circ by any means. I think it is fine for those who want it, and has some benefit which certainly justifies its place in medicine. There are very reasonable social reasons for it as well. But, I could really care less either way. I am just not a big fan of emotional reasoning based on pre-concieved notions when it is used in the realm of patient care/advising.
pruritis_ani said:Puhlease. Easy on the drama. Circumsision is NOT some bizzare, life alterering, disfiguring operation. How do I know? I had one, I have done several.
The point is that it is a very minor procedure, removing a piece of skin. The risks are very small. If parents want it, fine. We let them clip toenails too, right?
pruritis_ani said:The point is, it is NOT YOUR PLACE to be imposing your PERSONAL BELIEFS onto your patients.
What I have issues with are pretty simple. The biggest problem I have is with anybody who voted in the poll to influence the patients decisions. I can sort of get behind the subtle influence for circs, because that is where the most medical evidence is. To those that voted for anything but the first option (ie, non-biased discussion), I would say that it appears that you value your opinions more than you value good patient care.
I would encourage you to see this procedure for what it is, not what you imagine it to be.
Doula-2-OB said:Then your problem isn't with me.
Doula-2-OB said:I do see it for what it is. Just because our perceptions do not line up does not make me wrong, or misguided, or extremist. Good luck to you in your journey.
pruritis_ani said:Puhlease. Easy on the drama. Circumsision is NOT some bizzare, life alterering, disfiguring operation. How do I know? I had one, I have done several.
Are there medical reasons for it? Sure, there are some weak ones. Are there cultural/social reasons for it? Plenty of those too. Are these reasons big enough to require every newborn male infant get circed? Nope, and nobody is after that.
The point is that it is a very minor procedure, removing a piece of skin. The risks are very small. If parents want it, fine. We let them clip toenails too, right?
Making this into some huge argument about disfiguring a baby, comparing it to mastectomy, saying that these infants are doomed to a miserable sex life with a desensitized penis is ridiculous. Bringing in autonomy is also a bit ridiculous, as children typically have little autonomy anyhow. Should we wait til they reach adulthood to get consent before braces? How about haircuts?
It is a small procedure, easily done, with little distress on the part of the infant. If parents want it, great. If not, also great. I cannot believe how some people want to make the biggest issue out of nothing.
pruritis_ani said:This has turned into an absolute waste of time. If you want to get worked up over this, fine. Enjoy yourself.
Some people just love turning every little thing into such a big deal. Thank god fanatics such as yourself are the exception rather than the rule.
beetlerum said:So instead of responding to my arguments you're just resulting to name calling?
Look, it is beyond dispute that circumcision removes significant portions of the erogenous tissue of the penis. In countries where it is rarely done (most, that is), people widely regard it as a barbaric practice. It was started only to stop boys from masturbating. You would think that would be enough to at least warrant serious debate, but never for a second did you consider changing your culturally determined view.
You should know better.
pruritis_ani said:Fantastic.
My view is based on the fact that circumsision has some medical benefit, has very few side effects and a great risk profile. Do I advocate it for everyone? Nope. Do I think it is inappropriate for everyone? Nope.
To me, the fact that there ARE medical benefits, and the fact that it is a significant cultural/social issue is more than enough to justify it's continued use.
All of your information is basically useless. You "feel" it is barbaric, so you are against it. You want to get consent from minors before doing it, so I would assume that you also want to delay braces or any non-essential medical treatment until the child can make a decision for himself. Again, ridiculous. THIS IS A SMALL, SIMPLE, SAFE PROCEDURE. There is no reason to not offer it, or to force somebody to go through it as an adult. I, personally, trust the parents to make a better decision for their child far more than I trust you to do so.
Your point about it being sensitive tissue is meaningless to me. In fact, it adds merit to the argument for this being done in childhood, so nerves can regenerate...given a modicum of knowledge about physiology of tissue repair, you would be able to deduce that it is logical for adults to have the problems you cite (ie, decrease in sensitivity), whereas children would tend to recover some sensitivity. And, further, you ignore all those men that are out there having wonderful sex without their foreskins. As evidenced by the many of us that still enjoy intercourse, we can still have a very sensitive experience sans foreskin. If you can find some way to quantify and compare sensitivity between men who were and were not circumsized as infants, I would look at the results. But, I am pretty sure you won't be able to do that. So, your point is basically that you think a circumsised penis lacks some sensitivity. Well, frankly I don't care what you think, AND I disagree. More importantly, when it comes to medicine, I advise patients on the best data available, not what I think may be true. IMHO, there is simply no data that support your claims of terror about circs, and in fact there is data that support it's continued availability.
Fact is, you are trying to make an emotional argument against a very minor procedure, and it is not even worth my time to post a rebuttal.
Reasons to offer a circ: medical, social, cultural. So, the choice is there for parents to make. I have yet to see a valid reason to not offer this choice to parents. Side effects? Minimal and rare. In fact, there are plenty of negative results when the foreskin is not removed.
So, if you don't want to do them, great. If you can go out and provide me with some science that justifies your position, great. Until then, keep your fanatical theories about brutal procedures and terrible adverse effects to yourself, and spare your patients the realization that their caregiver is an emotional zealot.
My "culturally determined view" is that the procedure has some benefit, and some small risk. It is also such a benign procedure that there is absolutely no reason parents cannot decide this for their children, based on the principle of beneficence.
I think this thread has turned into a freak show, frankly, and I don't want to get involved any further. So, excuse me if I decline to reply to your fanatical observations and zealotry.
beetlerum said:Dude, you cannot regrow a frenulum you don't have. Your glans will be keratinized regardless of the age at which you get the procedure. Many women say that they notice a difference. Please do not compare this to getting braces. Your arguments against the sensitivity issue are weak, though at least you are addressing the issue. But it is clear that culture is still at work here, in what is probably the sole example of a body part that you would permit parents to remove.
I assume that if parents wanted to remove a portion of their girl's clitoris, you would have no objection.
pruritis_ani said:a few points, and I am out...
1. My glans, keratinized or not, feels fantastic inside of a vagina. If it was any more sensitive, I would be even more horny, which would significantly cut into my other interests, thus depriving society of a decent doctor. Therefore, you can argue that circumsision benefits society. (note sarcasm)
2. Who cares if "many women say they notice a difference"??? Is that your argument against it? That somebody ELSE may notice a difference? Strong argument...
3. My arguments "against sensitivity" address the science of the issue. Yours involve what you THINK is the case. Many millions of men disagree with your opinion, and know that they have fully sensitive and functioning penis. Are you saying that we are wrong?
4. I am not sure why you bring up removing a portion of the girls clitoris here. Is there any evidence that that is medically beneficial? Is it a safe procedure with few side effects? Have millions of women undergone it with no problems? Nope. It appears that you are trying to mislead people over to your side via a visceral, emotional reaction to an unrelated procedure. Nice try, but stick to the issue at hand.
I think there are a lot of procedures that parents can get for their children. All of them are either very small and relatively risk free (ie get their ears pierced, or a circ), medically neccesary for life (ie appendix or tumor removal), or medically justifiable (ie braces). So, no, a foreskin is not the only thing I approve of parents having operated on. It is one of many, many justifiable procedures.
Again, you are letting your fanaticism cloud your thinking. This is a benign procedure we are discussing. Millions of men had it, and still enjoy sex, killing your idea that circs will ruin the sensitivity of the penis. It is a very safe procedure, with a complication rate that is similar to that of NOT being circumsised. It is a procedure with some small evidence of medical benefit, which may well prevent deadly disease. All of that SCIENCE flies directly in the face of your weakly thought out OPINION, which has been fed by propaganda.
pruritis_ani said:Puhlease. Easy on the drama. Circumsision is NOT some bizzare, life alterering, disfiguring operation. How do I know? I had one, I have done several.
Are there medical reasons for it? Sure, there are some weak ones. Are there cultural/social reasons for it? Plenty of those too. Are these reasons big enough to require every newborn male infant get circed? Nope, and nobody is after that.
The point is that it is a very minor procedure, removing a piece of skin. The risks are very small. If parents want it, fine. We let them clip toenails too, right?
Making this into some huge argument about disfiguring a baby, comparing it to mastectomy, saying that these infants are doomed to a miserable sex life with a desensitized penis is ridiculous. Bringing in autonomy is also a bit ridiculous, as children typically have little autonomy anyhow. Should we wait til they reach adulthood to get consent before braces? How about haircuts?
It is a small procedure, easily done, with little distress on the part of the infant. If parents want it, great. If not, also great. I cannot believe how some people want to make the biggest issue out of nothing.
Flea girl said:Hello there Ani,
Now normally we tend to agree on most on these here boards....However, I do have to state that I am completely againist Circs. Yes, I have done a few and hated doing them. Unlike you none of my baby boys were sleeping, crying their poor little heads off and trying to move away. I personaly think that there is no real proven benefit. Yes, I know there are studies out there but
1) If having unprotected sex.. you deserve to get an STD(everyone knows the risk)
2) Penile CA not real prevenlent here in the US, so does it really make a dif?
3) Cervical CA transmission, well hell we are getting the vaccine and again can we say condoms? If not get your paps!
My son is not Circ'd. I left the decsion up to my husband and he choose not to do it. He felt that even though it is a minor procedure, it still possed a risk and just felt it was unneccessary. Though we found it amusing when people said "Don't you want your son to look like his father?" Funny thing is that both his dad and my dad are uncirc'd! It is amazing what people will tell you these days! That being said I would be impartial to my patients that I counseled. This even though I am morally againist them and think that it is unethical to do them on a baby that can not consent for the procedure. It is not my right to unload my hang ups on my pts . Though I will definately NOT do after residency and NEVER do more than is required of me.
Have you started residency yet P. Ani? I got first call on Sat !
pruritis_ani said:a few points, and I am out...
1. My glans, keratinized or not, feels fantastic inside of a vagina. If it was any more sensitive, I would be even more horny, which would significantly cut into my other interests, thus depriving society of a decent doctor. Therefore, you can argue that circumsision benefits society. (note sarcasm)
2. Who cares if "many women say they notice a difference"??? Is that your argument against it? That somebody ELSE may notice a difference? Strong argument...
3. My arguments "against sensitivity" address the science of the issue. Yours involve what you THINK is the case. Many millions of men disagree with your opinion, and know that they have fully sensitive and functioning penis. Are you saying that we are wrong?
4. I am not sure why you bring up removing a portion of the girls clitoris here. Is there any evidence that that is medically beneficial? Is it a safe procedure with few side effects? Have millions of women undergone it with no problems? Nope. It appears that you are trying to mislead people over to your side via a visceral, emotional reaction to an unrelated procedure. Nice try, but stick to the issue at hand.
I think there are a lot of procedures that parents can get for their children. All of them are either very small and relatively risk free (ie get their ears pierced, or a circ), medically neccesary for life (ie appendix or tumor removal), or medically justifiable (ie braces). So, no, a foreskin is not the only thing I approve of parents having operated on. It is one of many, many justifiable procedures.
Again, you are letting your fanaticism cloud your thinking. This is a benign procedure we are discussing. Millions of men had it, and still enjoy sex, killing your idea that circs will ruin the sensitivity of the penis. It is a very safe procedure, with a complication rate that is similar to that of NOT being circumsised. It is a procedure with some small evidence of medical benefit, which may well prevent deadly disease. All of that SCIENCE flies directly in the face of your weakly thought out OPINION, which has been fed by propaganda.
RossFamily said:I think...this horse is dead.
ilovepubmed said:here's an idea! let the kid grow up, when he turns 18 we can just ask him, "what do you think of cutting off part of your penis? if you never plan on bathing or using condoms, there might be some health benefits!" what do you think the kids going to say?
Slitherin said:"my sons will have their foreskins as they enter into adulthood" I hope your sons don't have to experience a foreskin adhesion and have to have a circumcision under general anasthesia when they are 5 y/o like my son did, it was quite traumatic and it convinced me to have our next son circumcised the usual time/way. And I think refusing to do a widely accepted procedure is a little overboard. I can see a Doc refusing to do an abortion, but refusing to do a circumcision? I was a little upset that our OB/GYN did not mention the problems associated with not circumcising. I would have liked to be informed about the possible problems.
AndrewB said:I had this when I was a toddler. Would have been easier if it had just been done at birth. Instead I was put under with a general anesthetic for the circ.
RossFamily said:I think...this horse is dead.