I used to run my own business, just not in dentistry. I handled all the finances, all the permits that the city required the business to get, e.g. fire permits, neon light permits. and all of that makes it a headache to keep the business afloat. In the end The business kept me afloat and gave me a living. I have a honda and went on vacations, only difference is I don't have kids, and might not plan to have any so that for sure is a game changer as I was just scraping by.
So don't go on claiming I have no real life experience when I spent a good number of years in the small business market in a different area.
I see a ton of hypocritical posts just about now. People telling people not to go into dentistry and go into engineering/accounting/computer science when they have never stepped foot in those careers and yet claim you must have experience before talking back to experienced dentists.
Nowhere in this thread was I giving any advice in regards to running a dental pratice or how to get by as a dentist because I have zero experience there. The only advice I was giving is to count your blessings because you are a dentist and not a part time retail worker. All the dentists here aren't living on the poverty line and should stop acting like they are.
You are assuming the poor people working 3 jobs to make ends meet didn't take risks? Many of them took risks leaving their home country to come here and that to me is considered a risk. You think you are better than them because you went to school and got an education.
Do you actually read what people write or just glance at it, make your assumptions, and shoot from the hip?
1. You have no personal knowledge of how any dentist on this post lives, so you can't tell them to act or stop acting a certain way with regards to what they say about personal financial matters. You can reason with them and discuss things, but it's clearly not your MO. Grow up and approach the mature level of your more experienced peers, not do a limbo under the bar.
2. You've seen "a ton" of hypocritical posts? There have been a few by newbies such as yourself, and the experienced members called them out on it, although they don't seem to get it and continue to air out their clueless opinions. They will just need to live and learn. Such is life.
3. You can have all the life experience you want, but you don't have dental life experience, so you are unqualified to judge experienced dentists to tell them they are doing just fine and that they should stop whining. You have no ground to stand on, period. Stating that obtaining fire permits somehow translates into being qualified to comment on running a dental business is one of the most absurd things I have seen in this post, although you have some competition.
4. You write about me, "You are assuming the poor people working 3 jobs to make ends meet didn't take risks? Many of them took risks leaving their home country to come here and that to me is considered a risk. You think you are better than them because you went to school and got an education." I hope you read your dental texts more closely than you read mine as you totally missed and twisted what I wrote, and made foolish assumptions. I have plenty of friends who got in rickety boats, or dodged Soviet machine gun helicopters during the Soviet Afghan war in the 80's, to get to this country, so there's no question they took existential risk to start over here. One of my friends spent an evening in an Iranian prison cell chained to the wall by his neck. I don't think I'm better than them. In fact, they have more guts than I will likely ever have, as I pray that my mettle will never be tested in the ways they experienced. When I wrote the word "risk," it was clearly aimed at the concept of financial risk as it applies to earning a living, not bodily risk. To equate the two in a forum discussing the financial and lifestyle trends of a particular profession is simply stupid. Based on your logic, we should all just shut up and be thankful we're not police officers or firemen who face a potential life threatening risks every day. But wait, I risk my life every day when I drive to work, as the odds of being killed in an automobile accident are statistically present. So I guess I DO risk my life every day to drive to my climate controlled office with padded chairs. Man, I really am one tough dude. Wow, I really like viewing life through your narrow lens. I feel so much better.
5. So at this point you have called me delusional, Donald Trump, and an elitist snob. Good for you, and good luck with your obnoxious attitude. Reply anything you want to this post - just please make it more creative than your past insults - but I will not reply as I'm done lowering myself attempting to reason with you.
Since I started posting a few weeks ago I've received numerous private messages from articulate and insightful young dentists and dental students, and for that I'm thankful that I joined this post. I'm not here to convince anyone of anything, just to respectfully analyze and debate things as I see them. Regardless of our concerns for the outlook of our esteemed profession, we are still fortunate to have many fine people on their way to joining our ranks. And that is a positive that cannot be stained in any way. We also have some others joining our ranks, but nothing's perfect.
Sincerely,
Donald