Spittz03 said:
Doula-2-OB, first of good luck in your studies, I hope you get into a good med school and manage to keep your head up through the rough training. I am curious as to how old you are, as you seem to have quite an experience.
I'm 29, I've been a doula for three years.
I don't even work in a city, I live an hour out of Seattle so I admit I haven't seen a lot of things that the city doulas have seen.
Spittz03 said:
Personally as an obstetrician, I would love to see more of low risk deliveries done by midwifes. I try to push many patients towards SVD as this is a natural process for deliveries and for many patients this is the right choice. However, there is a fine point to this, like C/S, SVD carries many risks and complications later in life that a lot of women do not want to deal with given a choice.
Well, just to point out an obvious truth: birth is risky.
There's no such thing as a 'safe' birth. You're taking your chances with elements that are out of anyone's control, and doing your best to reduce your risk. American women are NOT taught that birth is
naturally risky, they are taught to think that by managing/having technology at their fingertips they are eliminating risk. They think cesareans are w/o risk. It's just a complete lack of birth culture.
Spittz03 said:
I really doubt that an obstetrician said that a 14 week IUP was too large and needed a C/S as you say
I too have my doubts that this is the whole story - I was given this scenario by the mother herself, a primip (a teen, actually), and her mother who attended the appointment. They absolutely believed 100% that he was right, telling them the truth- this isn't one of those random 'rogue doc' tales that of course we doulas do admittedly pass around. LOL It's absolutely possible that they misunderstood, however this doc does indeed go out of his way to cut women off at the 'pass', so to speak, and head for surgery. If I needed a cesarean I might consider him since he's so experienced at it. He absolutely sucks at vaginal birth. LOL
Spittz03 said:
This does not mean that a C/S was done at 14 weeks, and it does not mean that this course was ultimately taken.
No no, that isn't what I meant. He told her at 14 weeks that she would ultimately need a cesarean when she was full term because her baby was already measuring large, not that she needed one at 14 weeks.
Spittz03 said:
Part of the trouble with Doula training, is an incomplete knowledge and a lot of bias passed on from one person to the other.
I ask curiously, not antagonistically, if you've attended a doula training? The trainings in the Seattle area (the largest doula community in the country, I daresay) are evidence based emphasis. That doesn't mean they're perfect, there aren't studies that show that the hip squeeze will be enough to get a woman through labor w/o pain meds, but anecdotally we pass those things on, for sure. But when we dispense information to clients, alternatives, other routes, etc. (NEVER *advice!!*), we are taught not only in our training but it is emphasized at every conference, seminar and workshop, and by our peers at large, to be evidence based. Now, I grant that I don't know many doulas who have a lot of experience in reading studies as they are published, how to determine fact from... well.. bullcrap... and I see all sides using any study whether it's well done or not, to serve their own agendas. Physicians and midwives are not innocent of this, either.
My goal is to be a physician who works with what evidence there is, who remains open to what is unknown, and who encourages women to trust their bodies, to treat them respectfully. My goal is to be a physician who protects birth as a rite of passage and does not medicalize it unnecessarily. That's REALLY hard, given the climate. That's almost impossible, given all that OBs are up against. I still think it can be done. If it can change into the climate we're in today, it can surely change into something else.
Spittz03 said:
There are a lot of deliveries done in this country in a given year, and if you concentrate on few exceptions, you might miss the whole picture
I hope you get the needed training and become a great physician that will be true to your patient needs while passing on a non-biased earned knowledge.
Thank you, I really appreciate that- I mean it.
I hope the same thing for myself, that I don't lose sight of what brought me on this path somewhere as I navigate it.