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Why can't people accept the fact that by and large people are fat because they choose to be fat. It's not complicated.
I'm not saying that every fat person is healthy, I am saying that some fat people are healthy. If a patient has normal cholesterol, normal blood pressure, normal blood sugar, normal heart rate, exercises regularly, eats well, and happens to be fat ... then they are a healthy fat person. There are healthy fat people just as there are unhealthy thin people. I agree that there's generally a higher likelihood that someone who is fat is unhealthy (since being fat is a risk factor for various illnesses), but I don't consider someone who is fat to be automatically ill.
Because one is a doctor and the other is a patient! When someone complains that their doctor is fat and they won't go to them, they aren't talking about the doctor's health. They are talking about their doctor's looks. Their doctor's personal health is none of their business. A doctor-patient relationship is not symmetrical. When that doctor goes to his own doctor and discusses his weight, then it's an issue of his health, because then he's the patient.
Why can't people accept the fact that by and large people are fat because they choose to be fat. It's not complicated.
Yeah, actually, it is complicated. If it wasn't, then there wouldn't be a multi-billion dollar industry failing to help more than a tiny percentage of people to lose weight.Why can't people accept the fact that by and large people are fat because they choose to be fat. It's not complicated.
And I would consider it an irresponsible practice in today's world to prescribe any course of treatment that has never been shown to be long-term successful in a reasonable study. There are no studies that show that any state-of-the-art lifestyle & nutrition counselling program can help more than a tiny percentage of patients to lose weight. There are studies, on the other hand, that show that Health at Every Size programs, encouraging patients to improve nutrition and increase activity without losing weight, have long-lasting improvements in patients' cholesterol and other disease markers.I would consider it an irresponsible practice in today's world to not actively encourage your fat patients to lose weight.
Like I said in my first post in this thread, it is certainly hypocritical to be fat and to say to your fat patients "It's easy to lose weight, you absolutely need to do it to be healthy, so just diet and exercise more and you'll lose weight". I do not plan to say that to my fat patients.How can a fat doctor who knows for a fact that this fat they carry around be a toll on their future health ask a fat patient to lose weight?
Yeah, actually, it is complicated. If it wasn't, then there wouldn't be a multi-billion dollar industry failing to help more than a tiny percentage of people to lose weight.
And I would consider it an irresponsible practice in today's world to prescribe any course of treatment that has never been shown to be long-term successful in a reasonable study.
There are no studies that show that any state-of-the-art lifestyle & nutrition counselling program can help more than a tiny percentage of patients to lose weight.
There is also a large body of evidence establishing that 'yo-yo dieting' is far more dangerous than simply becoming and staying fat. By encouraging patients to diet, you are hugely increasing their chances of becoming yo-yo dieters, and of repeatedly losing and gaining weight.
Given that likelihood, I believe the evidence shows that by encouraging patients to lose weight you are actually increasing their risk of illness. I will not recommend to my future patients a practice that is likely to harm their health in the long run.
If new studies come out that show the opposite, and establish an effective lifestyle-based weight loss program, then I'd consider following their suggestions. However, I plan to practice evidence-based-medicine. And while EBM, however weakly, shows increased risk in being fat (a risk that largely disappears when nutrition/exercise are improved), it also provides no reasonable solution, other than gastric bypass surgery which carries with it its own significant risks, to achieving sustained weight loss.
Like I said in my first post in this thread, it is certainly hypocritical to be fat and to say to your fat patients "It's easy to lose weight, you absolutely need to do it to be healthy, so just diet and exercise more and you'll lose weight". I do not plan to say that to my fat patients.
You're fat but healthy. Enjoy your cheeseburger[/i]
I think the point being made is that there are people (not the majority, I know) that do all the right things, but are still >25 bmi or whatever. What's the healthy option for them? Some crash diet?
I don't know. Nobody knows. That's why I won't recommend that my patients diet.How else would you propose that a patient gets a healthy BMI if not by losing weight?
But there have been tons of studies on weight loss, and they consistently show that nothing works. The dropout rates are huge, and the successes are minimal over, say, 5 year periods.But saying that one should not encourage a traditional practice simply on ground that there haven't been "serious studies"... really...
I don't really believe that most fat people think that. And I've never met a nutritionist who tells people that they can just change their lives for six months or a year and that'll make them thin forever. I'm fat, I know a lot of people who are fat, and I have never met anybody who believes that. Fat people tend to read a lot and know a lot about weight loss and its methods.For one, I have yet to meet a nutritionist that actually explains to their patients that to lose weight is to make a commitment for life. A lot of patients erroneously believe that once they lose weight they can resume their unhealthy lifestyle
Or, it's a physiological response to prolonged calorie reduction. Tons of very clever knowledgable people yo-yo diet. Some yo-yo dieters may be ignorant, but they certainly aren't all ignorant. Check out the fatdoctor blog, for example, at http://fatdoctor.blogspot.com/ -- this family doctor for the most part believes exactly what you believe about dieting, she's extremely knowledgable, and yet she's a yo-yo dieter.Yo-yo dieting is the product of ignorance on the part of the patient, and an omission on the part of the practitioner.
You're right, it's somewhat like that. We don't give everybody daily aspirin because it has GI risks, and we weigh the pros and cons. I think that for most fat people the cons of dieting are more significant than the potential pros.But to say "I'm not going to suggest that my patient lose weight because they might end up being yo-yo dieters" is a bit like saying "I won't give my MI patient an aspirin to chew on because it might give him an ulcer".
If you're going to say "I believe the evidence" on anything, I will ask you to quote it. Please do.
No. I am not saying that at all. I am saying that instead of using BMI is a primary indicator of health, I will use more objective values such as cholesterol, blood sugar, and blood pressure. I am saying that instead of having weight targets, such as losing 10% of body weight, I would ask my patients to have behavioural targets, such as exercising daily, and incorporating healthy foods into their diets, and minimizing unhealthy foods.you insist that you will just let your fat patients be fat, blissfully ignorant in the notion that they are "healthy", reinforcing the counterfactual idea that being fat is not being unhealthy, only because "there have been no clinical studies determining the best treatment for losing weight"?!
The problem isn't that there are no studies, it's that there have been tons of studies, and they all show that in the long run no existing programs result in sustained weight loss. Just because lots of people believe something, doesn't mean it's true!and you fly out in the face of the general consensus simply because there haven't been any prospective cohort studies determining the most effective way of losing weight?!
I agree that healthy eating and exercise work to lower cholesterol, to lower blood pressure, and generally to improve health. In the long run, though, for most people, it doesn't result in permanently lowered weights.Diet and exercise works. Otherwise you wouldn't get millions of people across the world doing it without going to see their doctors.
Well, that's your opinion, and there are lots of doctors out there who treat their patients based on different fundamental views of health and healing. I'm glad we live in a country where patients have that choice.A fat doctor either doesn't believe in the medicine he preaches (you need to lose weight, man!) or is down and out preaching the wrong medicine (You're fat but healthy. Enjoy your cheeseburger).
That's Bs. Honestly, it is just that most people don't stick with diet plans. I am sure there are exceptions (e.g. Samoans have a thrifty gene which make them more susceptible to being fat) but if one has the socioeconomic advantages doctors enjoy you shouldn't be fat. Check out this guy www.johnstonefitness.com. There are tons of people who have remodeled their lives and lost weight. Diets and short-term exercise programs won't do it. It is a lifestyle choice.I agree that healthy eating and exercise work to lower cholesterol, to lower blood pressure, and generally to improve health. In the long run, though, for most people, it doesn't result in permanently lowered weights.
And about the cheeseburger comment: eating healthy is not synonymous with eating calorie-reduced, and there are plenty of fat people out there who don't eat cheeseburgers or other stereotypically unhealthy foods.
The genetic predisposition to obesity is a joke. Sure there are fat kids with fat parents but that doesn't mean its heritable. Furthermore, most overweight people are overweight due to motivational issues, skipping exercise out of convenience, and plain gluttony. True medical disorders affecting metabolism exist but are rare when compared to the number of obese and overweight people.
Ill rephrase the OPs question more bluntly Why are you fat if you know its bad for you and how do you expect your patients to take you seriously when the rest of society clearly doesnt?
Wow- how many stereotypes and oversimplifications can you pack into a post.
We are only now starting to understand the intracies of obesity. If you are anywhere along your curriculum in medical school, you should have learned that obesity is multi-factorial inheritence.
It is not as simple as overeating (the whole calories in v. calories out paradigm) and not being healthy and exercising for all patients or all students. Genetics certainly plays a role in the development of obesity, just like it does with diabetes mellitus, hyperlipidemia. We still do not have a handle on the hormonal causes of obesity. There are also nutritional issues including steroids in our products as compared to 50 years ago.
Try to be compassionate and not just assume that the person is lazy and the victim of a poor lifestyle. Even if they are, you will not be able to help them if they perceive you as hostile and unsympathetic.
Moreover, metabolic disorders are not as uncommon as you may think. You cannot simply say that they are uncommon when the experts in the field admit that we do not understand enough about the process.
Also, for you evidence-based junkies out there, the only long-term fix for obesity is weight-loss surgery. And before someone jumps down my throat about the calories in v. calories out theory, they now recognize the enormous hormonal impact of the surgery and not just the malabsorption process.
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Frito pie
One of my fat patients (close to 600 pounds) related how she would order large pizzas, ask for them not to be sliced, and roll them up burrito-style for easier and quicker eating.
No one is the "victim" of a poor lifestyle. Your lifestyle does not hold you at knife-point and force twinkies down your gullet.
On the other hand we have the fattest poor in the history of the world.
I was being sarcastic when I wrote victim of a poor lifestyle.
Yes, you are correct that we have the fattest poor in the world. It is worth looking into why that is. Could it be that healthier foods including lean meats and vegetables tend to cost a lot more than the crap like the burritos you mentioned or chef boyerdee etc? Many working poor are also juggling multiple jobs and eat on the fly- so that limits them to microwaveable crap. Do you really fault them this much? What would you choose if you had to pick between paying the rent or eating healthy and living on the street?
You keep assuming that all fat people are shoveling twinkies down their throats. Some, sure. All, absolutely not!! That is simply false image but one that is unfortunately common in our society.
What's the rush? If you like eating pizza wouldn't you want it to last longer? Also who could possibly roll a large pizza tight enough to fit the end into their mouth. This kind of behavior sounds more psychiatric than merely gluttonous.
Wow- how many stereotypes and oversimplifications can you pack into a post.
We are only now starting to understand the intracies of obesity. If you are anywhere along your curriculum in medical school, you should have learned that obesity is multi-factorial inheritence.
It is not as simple as overeating (the whole calories in v. calories out paradigm) and not being healthy and exercising for all patients or all students. Genetics certainly plays a role in the development of obesity, just like it does with diabetes mellitus, hyperlipidemia. We still do not have a handle on the hormonal causes of obesity. There are also nutritional issues including steroids in our products as compared to 50 years ago.
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Also, for you evidence-based junkies out there, the only long-term fix for obesity is weight-loss surgery. And before someone jumps down my throat about the calories in v. calories out theory, they now recognize the enormous hormonal impact of the surgery and not just the malabsorption process.
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Pizzas. Not Pizza.
When you're 700 pounds eating developes strange logistical complexities.
Why the debate?
We live in the "it's not your fault" age.
It's not your fault that you're fat because you eat too much.
That's what we've come to accept as life...
Get over it ..... people are fat ...will be fat....and it's not their fault...because things like "discipline", "self-control", "personal responsbility" are no longer values deemed important in modern day America.
Just accept the fact that people are going to be fat....and not accept responsiblity for it.
I guess I don't understand all this.....I'm kind of a history buff, and one of the things that I have noticed is that in the historical photos of WWII prisoners of war camps......where caloric intake was restricted because of the camp environment....
There were surprisingly NO fat people.....if what you say were true....obesity is multifactorial....and caloric intake is JUST ONE componet of the big equation, then, in those historical photos....of thousands of prisoners of war.....there would HAVE TO BE at LEAST ONE fat person....
but, nope....they were all skinny....
I guess, in the last 60 years (2 generations), us humans have mutated beyond simple "calorie in/calorie out" physics....we can now defy the laws of thermodynamics.
X-men style.....I can't wait until the day when my son hits puberty...and sprouts knives from his wrists.
The fat patients I have known are poor but they are definitely not working. The only things they juggle are the numerous friends they have on the speed-dial of their cell-phones.
We have fat, non-working poor because most social programs discourage self-sufficiency and personal responsibiity. Additionally, nachos with extra cheese just taste better than endive salad. Since many of the poor have the intellectual and emotional developement of children, largely due to our enabling of their irresponsibiity, they will always choose to eat candy over vegetables.
I am somewhat sturdy myself but this is because of eating. I am 225 now but was only 180 when I was a Marine strictly because although I probably ate more I also was a lot more physically active. If I ate now how I ate then I'd be a behemouth.
I guess I don't understand all this.....I'm kind of a history buff, and one of the things that I have noticed is that in the historical photos of WWII prisoners of war camps......where caloric intake was restricted because of the camp environment....
There were surprisingly NO fat people.....if what you say were true....obesity is multifactorial....and caloric intake is JUST ONE componet of the big equation, then, in those historical photos....of thousands of prisoners of war.....there would HAVE TO BE at LEAST ONE fat person....
but, nope....they were all skinny....
I guess, in the last 60 years (2 generations), us humans have mutated beyond simple "calorie in/calorie out" physics....we can now defy the laws of thermodynamics.
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Exactly. I would love to hear about those people who can burn 2500kCal a day and only take in 2000kCal and still gain weight. Btw, it's hard to stand in an exam room listening to some hefty person professing their strict adherence to a prescribed diet while noting the empty KFC box in her puse and a fresh twinkie wrapper on the floor. I just smiled and nodded my head in agreement, wondering if I should say something about the twinkie spooge on her lip.
No, they don't.Could it be that healthier foods including lean meats and vegetables tend to cost a lot more than the crap like the burritos you mentioned or chef boyerdee etc?
Oh, bull****.Many working poor are also juggling multiple jobs and eat on the fly- so that limits them to microwaveable crap.
Do you really fault them this much? What would you choose if you had to pick between paying the rent or eating healthy and living on the street?
Why can't people accept the fact that by and large people are fat because they choose to be fat. It's not complicated.
uh huh i CHOSE for years to be fat...sure i did. i spent thousands of dollars of MY hard eard money on almost every diet and excersise program out there to have them ALL FAIL. i followed every diet...every nutritionist suggestion...even went on a 1000 calorie a day strict diet and STILL would only lose 50 or so pounds to gain it all back and then some more. i did all that because i WANTED To be fat...give me a friggen break. if i wanted to be fat then why did i finally resort to bariatric surgery to lose weight when all other options had failed me??? why did i try everything under the sun before permanently altering my digestive system if i WANTED to be fat??? i am sure all that money i spent trying to lose weight was all because i wanted to be fat....yep that must be why everything i tried before bariatric surgery failed.
i feel incredibly sorry for your future patients if this is the type of compassion you have...or should i say lack.
No fat people after fininshing my BASIC training, either.(And, there were lots at the begining.) Reduced calories (strictly enforced) and increased activity (again strictly enforced) works very well for those capable of exercising. No body starves in basic training. Besides, it's hard to starve someone carrying around 50lbs worth of cheeseburgers.
For some people, it is just that- pay your rent or buy healthier food.
What would you have them buy that is healthy and cheap? Tang and sugar drinks are cheaper than juice, meat is ridiculously expensive in most places, esp the leaner cuts instead of hot dogs and other crap like cold cuts. Fruit and vegetables are also more expensive if you are thinking portion size than a bag of chips. Dairy products are not that cheap but can be worked into the budget. Most cereals are crap, high refined sugar.
Also, I worked in the ED in the second poorest congregational district in the country and was able to listen to people day in and day out about their dietary habits and lamenting about it. I am not the one suggesting that McDonald's is what the poor all opt for- it is $5-7/meal as was mentioned by the poster as is not something that the poor all do on a daily basis. I agree that eating at McDonald's on a daily basis is stupid. However, many poor do opt for quick, easy meals like hot pockets (that cost a lot less than $5/meal) or pop tarts. I agree convenience is an issue.
I think it is great that you brown bag your lunch. But do not assume that as a doctor or even resident that you will work harder and longer than everyone else. It is not true. There are other professions where people work just as long. There are a lot of people out there working two-three jobs a day. There are also a lot of older people doing this and if we are being honest, the energy that you have may not be the same amount of energy that a 44 year old waitress has. This is not an excuse. I agree that it would be preferrable to have our patients eat healthy but it is an explanation. These patients deserve our compassion and we need to work with them, not against them.
There may also some cultural hurdles that need to be overcome in terms of high carb and sugar meals.
For some people, it is just that- pay your rent or buy healthier food.
What would you have them buy that is healthy and cheap? Tang and sugar drinks are cheaper than juice, meat is ridiculously expensive in most places, esp the leaner cuts instead of hot dogs and other crap like cold cuts. Fruit and vegetables are also more expensive if you are thinking portion size than a bag of chips. Dairy products are not that cheap but can be worked into the budget. Most cereals are crap, high refined sugar.
From this, it seems like you probably never really had an example of how to eat right growing up or within your social sphere. I think that's common in many parts of this country- people with parents who overindulge or go for processed and pre-packaged (and often heavily marketed) foods start to see that as the norm.
......However, you might benefit from meeting with a nutritionist in order to learn what an ideal diet looks like.
uh huh i CHOSE for years to be fat...sure i did. i spent thousands of dollars of MY hard eard money on almost every diet and excersise program out there to have them ALL FAIL. i followed every diet...every nutritionist suggestion...even went on a 1000 calorie a day strict diet and STILL would only lose 50 or so pounds to gain it all back and then some more. i did all that because i WANTED To be fat...give me a friggen break. if i wanted to be fat then why did i finally resort to bariatric surgery to lose weight when all other options had failed me??? why did i try everything under the sun before permanently altering my digestive system if i WANTED to be fat??? i am sure all that money i spent trying to lose weight was all because i wanted to be fat....yep that must be why everything i tried before bariatric surgery failed.
i feel incredibly sorry for your future patients if this is the type of compassion you have...or should i say lack.
i feel incredibly sorry for your future patients if this is the type of compassion you have...or should i say lack.
Wrong!!!!
Fat people WILL (not MIGHT) BENEFIT from a healthy dose of SELF-disciple, SELF-awareness, PERSONAL responsibility.
They DID NOT have nutritionists in the 1940's.....and there WAS NOT an obesity epidemic back then.
I USED to be fat....then I realized that I needed to change my lifestyle....now I'm not.
Accept responsibility for YOUR problems....DO NOT blame everyone else.
From this, it seems like you probably never really had an example of how to eat right growing up or within your social sphere. I think that's common in many parts of this country- people with parents who overindulge or go for processed and pre-packaged (and often heavily marketed) foods start to see that as the norm.
I go to med school on the west coast, where I have yet to see an overweight med student or even an overweight physician. It's just in the culture here to eat healthy foods and take care of yourself. I drink water (NOT juice or -gasp- Tang). I can't even imagine any of my fellow students eating McDonald's. Lots of people here go for lean meats and lots of veggies. High fiber oatmeal instead of cereal. It's not expensive...I spend about $40 a week on food. When you see examples of how to eat correctly, it makes it seem a lot easier.
Good luck with your weight struggles. It seems like you have been through quite an ordeal. However, you might benefit from meeting with a nutritionist in order to learn what an ideal diet looks like.
Wrong!!!!
Fat people WILL (not MIGHT) BENEFIT from a healthy dose of SELF-disciple, SELF-awareness, PERSONAL responsibility.
They DID NOT have nutritionists in the 1940's.....and there WAS NOT an obesity epidemic back then.
I USED to be fat....then I realized that I needed to change my lifestyle....now I'm not.
Accept responsibility for YOUR problems....DO NOT blame everyone else.
Is this what you're going to tell your patients?? And you are expecting them to respond to this miraculous relevation?
Congrats on your own personal discovery, but your approach isn't going to work for all your patients and you need to be little more open minded about obesity. One of my proffs told us that when we react strongly to a patient (as you seem to be doing to an entire patient population btw) it is not because of the patient, but because of your own personal baggage, which in order to be a good clinician, you need to learn to leave at the door when you enter an exam room. Your callousness is only going to push your patients further away from you which will do nothing to help them, which is after all your goal as a physician. . .
What on earth is wrong with suggesting an obese person seek advice on diet from a nutritionist? Alot of people have no idea how to eat right because they have never seen it done within their family and friends. Education is one of the greatest tools we can use to help our patients. Of course in the end its their responsibility, but it is our responsibility as a physician to do everything possible to help our patients.
As to your 1940's comment, the social food culture in our country was quite a different beast and really not comparable. Most families had a stay at home mom who prepared meals from scratch that were nutritionally balanced. Everyone sat down together and had a meal. Microwavable dinners, pizza hut, and mcdonalds were not options, never mind the dinner of choice for many families. Single parents or families with two working families were rare so time to prepare food wasn't an issue. Also the junk food culture was very different, kids weren't given unlimited access to junk food filled pantries where they learned to fill emotional gaps with food at a young age, as many kids today do. So of course obesity wasn't as big a problem, the entire culture viewed food differently. I think we all know the cause of the current epidemic, which arose post 1940. Now the goal is to learn how to help our patients, instead of just judging them based on our own personal baggage.
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The excess portion sizes in restaurants, the steroids in everything we eat (which by the way, we have no idea how they interact with our own hormones), the decreased physical activity due to the different occupations undertaken in first world countries-- all of these have nothing to do with it?
A "hen" is a "chicken," by the way. I am sure that chicken is part of everybody's cultural heritage. It takes almost nothing to roast a chicken, just some salt, pepper, and a lemon if you go in for that kind of thing. You can throw some potatoes in and make some greens and can feed two adults and two children for eight bucks, tops. And you can make soup out of the bones and scrap if you are really motivated (which I seldom am).
My point is that the poor eat the way they do because they are habitually lazy and it is easier to get some fried chicken from Popeyes than to plan and execute a meal that I can make with one hand while reading my mail and talking to my wife. It is simple and cheap to eat well in America where the real cost of groceries has gone steadily down for the last twenty years.
Not all fat people overeat or have unhealthy lifestyles.
Like I said....you can either be responsible for YOUR behaviors....OR...you can blame the restaurants.
Obviously, you blame the restaurants, your job, and everybody else.