Hello, thank you for the response.
I am okay now. I have to work on myself, I see. I really appreciate your response, it helps. All of the responses do. I don't know why I put such high expectations of myself, I wasn't even raised to be perfect and no one depends on it at all. My parents say they just want me to be healthy and not worry to much. They said they're okay even if I come home with a C average. I think I do it because I don't like seeing people I don't like doing better than me. Students at my school are awfully judging when it comes to grades, and if they ask you and you deny to tell them you will be ridiculed. It's interesting that you brought up learned helplessness. Everyday I tell myself that I'm going to get there. And that it
will happen. And that helps, most of the time. Sometimes (like last night) someone would say something that would just cut a bit too deep, and I'd fall. But I'd pick myself up again reminding myself that this person is just trying to ruin my spirit and tear me down and that I shouldn't listen to them because I am going to get there. I hope college isn't like this. I don't like dealing with people that are this rude. I can put up with it, but it really sucks.
And thanks it makes me glad I made honors. And it seems like everyone else is perfect though? I try to tell myself they're not but it's difficult when that is all I see of them. There's a ton of students with academic, physical, emotional, and intellectual perfection. But that's impossible. Because it's all subjective. I don't see them as perfect. I would not want to be them at all, I'd only want to be me. I wouldn't trade lives with anyone.
I am happy now though. I got a torso anatomy model, pig dissecting kit, and many biology books for Christmas, so it will be a busy week for me.
Thank you for your response.