As you know, this is very debatable and likely could never be decided by someone who sees so obviously through rose colored glasses.
For example, some could argue that affirmative action policies actually hurt minorities and show a lack of love and respect and equal opportunity philosophy is much more supportive and loving for a minority group than equal outcome philosophy. But some obviously feel affirmative action and positive discrimination is helpful.
My point being, your points are not good points.
OBVIOUSLY, you feel the dem solution is better because you think the Republican solution is mean, or discriminatory, or whatever.
But OBVIOUSLY, lots of republicans think the dem solution is discriminatory and mean, or whatever.