I tried to keep it really amicable. I mean, they threw me a huge, fancy party at a resort so I hope so. Filling my shifts wasn't an issue, but they might have taken it personally, I don't know. There were over 35 applicants for my position, so that was not an issue at all.
I called my director and let him know. He was SHOCKED as I'd been there 12 years, which is...a lifetime in EM. I basically said it's me, not you, and asked him what would work for the group regarding with my last day, and he said whenever you want, so I just kept all my shifts so as not to leave them in the lurch for Thanksgiving. I would have stayed a few more weeks but I decided it was safer just to work my assigned shifts due to the concerns you listed re: nights and weekends. It was about 120 days notice. There was no notable hostility, although some jealousy and confusion.
The sad thing is there just isn't much of a market for burnt out ER doctors. I'd like to work in something, but we aren't NPs, retraining is hard.
This weekend? Snowshoeing, maybe skiing, we will see. Sleeping for sure. I think I will be OK financially, but wow not getting free food, health insurance, and gift certificates is cutting into the bottom line, and well winter activities are pricey, as is the equipment. We'll see.