First off, congrats! What a problem to have!
Just to chime in as an SF resident. Been here for about 10+ years, and it is true that the city is not the same as it was before the pandemic. However, I was in Baltimore before the pandemic and was not impressed at all. So, comparing the two, I would choose SF any day of the week. If you avoid downtown and the Tenderloin and just stay around the area where UCSF is, it's pretty great! Anywho, good luck in making a decision.