and i am still sure that you don know french,
we never use vous in a conversation like that
I don't mind constructive criticism as French is not my language. However, I'm pretty sure I speak it fluently. However, whether one is a native or not, mistake can abound. It's like an American being confused over who/whom, may I/can I and so on. In our case, I find it hard to believe that you wouldn't know the difference between tu/vous. I extended you the courtesy of respect because I do not know you and vous is appropriate. But I suppose (through no fault of yours), and if you'll allow a non-native speaker
laugh
to correct you, here is the difference between tu & vous (source:
French.about.com)
French has two different words for
you:
tu and
vous. In English, the second person subject pronoun is always
you, no matter how many people you're talking to,
and whether you know them or not.
In French, these distinctions are very important - you must understand when and why to use each of them. Otherwise,
you may inadvertantly insult someone by using the wrong you.
Tu is the familiar
you, which demonstrates a certain closeness and informality. Use
tu when speaking to one
- friend
- peer / colleague
- relative
- child
- pet
Vous is the formal and plural
you. It is used to show respect or maintain a certain distance or formality with someone. Use
vous when speaking to
- someone you don't know well
- an older person
- an authority figure
- anyone to whom you wish to show respect
.Vous.. is also the plural
you - you have to use it when talking to more than one person, no matter how close you are.
Because the
tu /
vous distinction doesn't exist in English, beginning French students often have trouble with it. Some people follow the guideline of using whatever the other person uses with them. This can be misleading: someone in authority may use
tu with you, but that certainly doesn't mean that you can respond in kind. You can try asking
On peut se tutoyer ?, but when in doubt, I tend to use
vous. I'd rather show someone too much respect than not enough!
.Anyway, let us not
anymore than we already have.