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These numbers are usually more in the range of $800 to 1K which is MORE than enough for diapers, formula etc. Daycare would be an issue but I am just saying it would be enough for the basics.Yes, I understand the need for personal responsibility. I know that I, as a (currently abstinent) first year medical student living in a tiny apartment and barely getting by on my student loan money and barely finding the time to take care of myself, would be in quite a pickle if I got pregnant. And the guy would have no worries. Yes, I suppose I could go after him for child support, but I have friends who get child support from their "baby daddies" and it amounts to something like $200/month when the guy is pulling in 50K a year. $200 a month would not help me raise a child.
Agreed. IIRC from what I saw yesterday in the link to the CDC I think 81% of abortions were by single women, and 52% or so were white women. I am sure if you looked at the level of education at the time they had an abortion it would be people who are either in high school or only have a HS degree (either in college or working without going to college). I have NO basis to back this up just my guess..Would I have an abortion? Probably not. I would take time off from school to save some money and enlist the help of my family (I am lucky enough to have a mom who doesn't work, and would pitch in to help) and make it somehow and be able to give that child a very nice life - financially, educationally, and emotionally. But what percent of the population am I? What percent of the population has less support than I do? I would guess that a very high percentage do.
Not so sure I agree with this. Perhaps the first and heck even the 2nd time but at some point before she had her 6th Ab either SHE could have taken the repsonsibility to learn about this or I would GUESS SOMEONE sat down and told her. IMO she didnt care. socute I just dont but that someone could have had 10 ABs and it is ANYONEs fault but their own.I realize that the G15P5 patients you see are probably NOT there due to contraceptive failure, but they are there due to lack of contraceptive education.
This is my 2nd reason why I think Abs should be ok. its not like there is line out the door of people trying to adopt crack addicted babies, or HIV babies, or babies with birth defects.I also think I raise a valid point about the fact that unplanned babies are likely to encounter more problems due to maternal behavior. Their moms are way more likely to be using drugs, not be taking folic acid (my family has a history of neural tube defects, so this always sticks in my mind) and to be drinking alcohol during pregnancy. What happens when nobody wants those kids? Where do they go and what kind of lives are they going to have?
socuteMD said:Yes, I understand the need for personal responsibility. I know that I, as a (currently abstinent) first year medical student living in a tiny apartment and barely getting by on my student loan money and barely finding the time to take care of myself, would be in quite a pickle if I got pregnant. And the guy would have no worries. Yes, I suppose I could go after him for child support, but I have friends who get child support from their "baby daddies" and it amounts to something like $200/month when the guy is pulling in 50K a year. $200 a month would not help me raise a child.
Would I have an abortion? Probably not. I would take time off from school to save some money and enlist the help of my family (I am lucky enough to have a mom who doesn't work, and would pitch in to help) and make it somehow and be able to give that child a very nice life - financially, educationally, and emotionally. But what percent of the population am I? What percent of the population has less support than I do? I would guess that a very high percentage do.
I realize that the G15P5 patients you see are probably NOT there due to contraceptive failure, but they are there due to lack of contraceptive education. If we can make it so that unintended pregnancy is a statistical anomaly, then frankly I think that the right wing will be appeased enough to just be quiet about it for the most part if there are only 1000 abortions a year as opposed to close to 1,000,000 (data from CDC, 1999, at which point there had been a significant downward trend for 4 years. Suspect it has increased since the institution of new sex ed policies since 2000).
I also think I raise a valid point about the fact that unplanned babies are likely to encounter more problems due to maternal behavior. Their moms are way more likely to be using drugs, not be taking folic acid (my family has a history of neural tube defects, so this always sticks in my mind) and to be drinking alcohol during pregnancy. What happens when nobody wants those kids? Where do they go and what kind of lives are they going to have?
EctopicFetus said:hey IIRC Hugo Chavez was also elected in Venezuela we dont like him much either , of course on Fox news they refer to him as a "dictator" but I believe he was voted in.
I agree with CS here on this point. Their hatred of us comes from the fact that we support Israel (for a lot of reasons, including the fact that they are the ONLY Democracy in the Middle east). Is there a reason though that we should "care about them as a society"? I just wonder what the long term effect of this will be. Should be interesting esp because I cant see the US giving $100 Mil to a US defined Terrorist organization.
We can debate the Israel vs Palestine thing. I for one am VERY pro-israel..
I happen to know a number of single moms and each of them receive far less than 800-1000 a month. The one woman I know who receives over 1000/month is responsible for paying her daughter's health insurance ($200 extra/month).EctopicFetus said:These numbers are usually more in the range of $800 to 1K which is MORE than enough for diapers, formula etc. Daycare would be an issue but I am just saying it would be enough for the basics.
As far as unplanned pregnancies being better off aborted because of possible defects. I truthfully think that is a reach. Two arguments come into play -- how do you select which ones would have had problems? I mean, you don't know that they all do, but your feeling is to abort them all?
Well I know some "baby daddies" who make 50K or so and thats what they are paying, I dont know if it is a NC thing or what. Also this obviously depends on how much $$$ the baby daddy makes and how much the baby momma makes..socuteMD said:I happen to know a number of single moms and each of them receive far less than 800-1000 a month. The one woman I know who receives over 1000/month is responsible for paying her daughter's health insurance ($200 extra/month).
hyperbaric said:I disagree.
corpsmanUP said:Anyone know why we really give a flip about that piece of dust on the Med called Israel? Can't we just rope off a big corner of the Tetons and NW Wyoming, or perhaps West Texas (there they might feel more at home) and give the Palestinians Israel? I mean isn't that all they want anyway? Give it to em', and build a 90,000 person stadium in Jeruselem and play the annual "Dust Bowl" there. I just find it ridiculous that we get ourselves all involved with that part of the world anyway. Its time to take Willie Nelson's idea and start burning corn oil for energy!
Vote Kinky Friedman!!
schutzhund said:My opinion of these posts is rapidly diminishing.
Right there with you on Alaska.corpsmanUP said:Lighten up friend, this is not meant to be an extremely serious thread. And have you really seen the choices we have for governor right now in Texas? At least Kinky has a reasonable way to protect our Texas borders.....anyone see him on Leno last night? He's another Jessie Venture or Arnold, so don't take him lightly...he might surprise a lot of people!
But really, can someone educate me as to what our legitimate interest is in Israel besides the fact that is was the birthplace of Jesus? I just don't get it....and it seems to be the main reason the terrorists hate us. Would the world just come to a crashing halt if we decided to leave the Israel debate and instead just remained customers of the Arabs selling the oil?
Time to drill in Alaska baby.....!!!
DocCM said:Right there with you on Alaska.
As for Israel- Someone already mentioned the fact that they were the first and most well established democracy in the ME. IN addition, they are our allies. Is it popular to support Israel? not really (at least over there) But again, if we chose to make decisions, domestic or foreign, based on popularity where would that put us? I've said myself that our support for Israel is a major reason for conflicts between the US and Arab countries. That doesn't mean you turn your back on an ally and let the surrounding countries wipe it of the face of the earth (declared goal of Hamas and Iran)
CM
corpsmanUP said:Lets not kid ourselves...all the Arab states combined could not knock off Israel. In fact, Israel is one of the few militaries I would personally be worried about facing. They wrote the book on many modern military warfare strategies and the have arguably the world's best air force and special operations soldiers. And don't forget they hold all the nukes! Maybe our friendship with them is actually just a way to keep in the dialogue to help them refrain from anihilating the Arabs. Because that is exactly what they will do if they get attacked in any serious capacity. They do not need us for anythign related to military assistance I can assure you.....
Last summer word began circulating, first in the academic community and then in the media, that two professors, John Donohue and Steven Levitt, had found solid evidence of exactly that: They had discovered a link much stronger, more statistically demonstrable, than the link between anticrime policies and crime rates. More shocking still, the link they found was between abortion and crime. Or to be more precise, between the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision legalizing abortion and the much heralded fall in crime rates starting about 18 years later, in the early 1990s.
During the course of their research, Donohue and Levitt had almost accidentally stumbled upon the number of abortions performed in America and the fact that--in Donohue's words--"poor, unmarried, young, low-education women tend to have more abortions. And their kids tend to have higher rates of crime." The two researchers began crunching the numbers, and after several years they concluded, to their own surprise as much as anyone else's, that fully half of the decrease in crime that has occurred over the past decade can be directly attributed to the fact that women in the 1970s and 1980s had ready access to abortion.
Looking at state-by-state and year-by-year figures, the two professors found a remarkable correlation between abortion rates and crime rates 15 to 18 years later. And that's not all. They also determined that in the states that legalized abortion prior to the Roe v. Wade ruling, crime rates began falling earlier than in other parts of the country
The social benefit to reduced crime as a result of abortion may be on the order of $30 billion annually."
"Israel will exist and will continue to exist until Islam will obliterate it, just as it obliterated others before it."
The time will not come until Muslims will fight the Jews (and kill them); until the Jews hide behind rocks and trees, which will cry: O Muslim! there is a Jew hiding behind me, come on and kill him!
EctopicFetus said:The Fatah "supporters" are getting a little antsy.
I don't care what political party you belong to and how much of F9/11 is false/fabricated, that scene where Bush is reading the book to the children and he finds out that the US is being attacked is some of the funniest ish I have seen in my life.DocCM said:First off, thank you for your service to our country. I can only imagine what you went through in Iraq the first time and am extremely grateful to you.
Now, please don't reference F911- it's left wing propaganda and is full of inaccuracies and flat out lies. Almost every clip in the movie is taken from context in order to portray replubicans as nefarious evil-doers. Anytime someone uses this "documentary" to prove a point, they quickly lose credibility.
As for the timing of the invasion- yes the administration chose to invade after 9/11 because they had same intelligence that those before them had. While there was and is no link between 9/11 and Iraq, there is an obvious and strong link between Iraq and terrorism. After 9/11, the main goal was to seek out and destroy terrorism, not only al queda, but all those who pose a threat to the US and it's allies.
Let me ask you this: Who would you blame if we had spent all of resources finding Osama, found him and then quit, only to suffer a nuclear attack from Saddam or one of the factions he supported? I'm guessing it would still be Bush, because afterall he did have the intelligence that Iraq possessed WMD's and did nothing about it. Osama is not the only terrorist in the world capable of hurting the US.
As for your argument concerning the way Bush asked for a vote: As I already posted, the problem in Iraq was long recognized before Bush came ito office. Some of the same democratic senators who now say he lied were calling for missile strikes and attacks on Iraq in 1998. If the first time any of these senatros thought about the threat of Iraq was in 2001, they were severly uninformed.
All this being said, I want this war to end. I don't, however, want the US to pack up and leave a politically and militarily unstable country to terrorists.
CM
RonaldColeman said:The typical conservative response: if we outlaw abortion, perhaps it would force people to be a little more responsible in their sexual practices.
But only if many of the same people that are against abortion would admit that the aforementioned education should consist of far more than just lectures on abstinence...DocCM said:I was wondering the same thing as far as hard numbers(%abortion from rape that is). In a utopian society we would make exceptions for the victims of rape, however I'm not sure how that would work out legally. I personally have more of a problem with idea that people have an easy way out after making a poor decision as opposed to the morality of the topic. On the whole, this is one of the few topics where personal responsibilty and education would make it a non-issue.
CM
Great post.socuteMD said:I wasn't calling it "emergency birth control." I hope and pray that women empower themselves in preventing unwanted pregnancies/STDs. But, I also have done a lot with respect to learning about the barriers to effective contraceptive use. And I think I did a good job of shedding some light on those (probably a very good job, since you didn't have a response).
If you are a woman and hypertensive and can't be on the Pill, you have a 1 in 100 chance of becoming pregnant over the course of a year (assuming you are sexually active) because you can't use both the Pill and condoms. Is it realistic to expect that this woman will only have sex when she wants to become pregnant? Is it realistic to expect her partner to agree to that (well, yes) but is it realistic that her partner would agree to that? Ummm...no.
I want abortion to be a last resort for every woman. I want every woman to go into a sexual encounter with a condom in her purse (to presumably be removed and used!), and knowing that even if the condom breaks, her doctor will prescribe Plan B and her pharmacist will fill the prescription. I want her to know where to go, who to call, and how to effectively use contraception. Unfortunately, with this administrations' championship of "abstinence only" education, teens just don't know this stuff. And they need to. They need to know that the safest sex is NO SEX. But they also need to know how to have safer sex.
MeganRose said:Great post.
I agree- The education should also include the economics and life changing responsibility that come with having a child. At what point do we stop blaming the public school system and federal government and start blaming parents for the education of their children in this matter? Everyone likes to think that if we hand out condoms and tell everyone to use them, it will stop teen/unwanted pregnancy. It might help, but until people become fully aware of the consequences of their actions, nothing's going to make a significant impact.MeganRose said:But only if many of the same people that are against abortion would admit that the aforementioned education should consist of far more than just lectures on abstinence...
corpsmanUP said:Texas already has the worst schools and the worst children's healthcare access in the nation.
corpsmanUP said:Now don't tease us BKN. We know you really want to get a piece of this action. Say what YOU really think!!!
BKN said:Well, another chance to make an a** of myself.
At the front end of the Iraq conflict, I said:
1. It's immoral to attack somebody who didn't attack you. Iraq didn't attack us.
2. It was never about WMD. Whether Saddam wanted them or not, the sanctions were working. It was always about regime change and protection of oil production, hidden under a banner of "spreading democracy."
3. The neocons wanted to finish the job that Bush Sr wouldn't do.
I think I was right about all of that. Big deal. The issue is going forward.
I don't know what the right path is from here. But I sure wish that we weren't led by a pack of people who have demonstrated mendacity, a disrespect for the constitution, willingness to trample human rights (read rendition and torture), incompetence and a general ability to alienate our friends and inability to make new ones or think outside of the box. In short I think the administration has destroyed America's leadership and moral advantage.
OK C, was that candid enough?
DocCM said:Thanks for replying to this thread. It's been a great discussion and continues that way.
As for your 1st point: Germany didn't attack us (ww2), nor did Iraq during the 1st gulf war. These were wars to defeat tyranny while defending our allies. I'm not sure you can say this Iraq war is immoral for this reason without calling of the rest of these wars unjustified/immoral.
Were the sanctions working? According the Saddam's own 2nd in command, the WMD's he did have were moved to Syria before the allied invasion:
http://www.nysun.com/article/26514?page_no=1
Granted, he is an expatriot trying to participate in a capitalist market by selling books, but if anyone would know the truth it would be him.
Edit: I had orginally included ww1 as an example, but had forgotten about the Lusitania.
Let's keep the thread alive!
CM
That's an interesting article.BKN said:Don't want to quibble. I'll accept attacks on allies as part of proviso no 1 (although not attacks by allies).
That said, I believe that Germany did declare war on the US first, after their ally Japan attacked us. Date of declaraton was 12/11/41. They used as their reasons the fact that the US Navy had commenced unrestricted naval warfare on German submarines and convoy escort duty in Sept 1940. I glanced at couple of naval history sites. Seems to be true.
Here's a good website about it. http://www.yale.edu/lawweb/avalon/wwii/gerdec41.htm
But the important thing is how to go forward.