The question is pretty simple actually. I am asking about your identity because it is obvious to me that you find those terms, like “blacklist” to be utmost ridiculous. You’ve said as much in this thread.
I, personally, am not going to die on the hill of changing the name blacklist but what is obvious to me in your response is you do not consider those terms remotely hurtful, likely because you do not have the lens to ever be on the other side. And of course you wouldn’t. I venture to say you aren’t black.
I say this because black children grow up learning these terms, that you obviously deem benign, and they question the pattern. They ask why is it that all the bad things are always associated with black and all the good things are associated with white. Black children at a young age want to identify themselves as brown/dark brown because that’s what they see on their skin and are told no, you are black. So there is an external force to make sure they know the term is black, whilst learning all the other ways in which that term is used in society, negatively. If you’ve actually experienced yourself/witnessed a child having this realization, you would easily be able to visualize the pain.
As parents, people of color have to explain away all the things that their child shouldn’t take to heart, and accept it as just something that is throughout their childhood. That’s what they’ve done for generations. In recent years, there has been a movement that says wait, why do black people and other people of color have to accept these terms of engagement, why do they have to accept their identity, their blackness, being tied to a thousand negative/repulsive/degrading/whatever terms why don’t white people have to accept anything but positivity as being associated with whiteness? After all none of these terms are central to the English language, in fact in almost all these cases they were colloquial/vernacular/slang that were later adopted. Then, just as easily they could be eliminated and we could adopt/adapt to new ones.
So I ask that question to you, why can’t different terms be adopted if they consistently associate one group of society as undesirable? Why not? Because it would be annoying?