I don't think this counts as asking for veterinary medicine advice but...
any tips on getting two gregarious senior cats ready for a newborn to join the household? I read somewhere about playing the sound of a baby crying in advance for a few weeks? People also said to put out the baby items like swing and all that, but with something in it so cat doesn't think they should sleep there. Thoughts?
My friend's cats who are very skittish seemed to have no issues getting used to a baby.
I once subletted my apartment in med school while I was gone for summer (leaving my cats there) to someone with an infant that crawled, there was a baby gate and in the small apartment the cats basically took to living under the futon on the other side of the gate by the renter's report. After about 3 months I guess one of the cats finally came out to meow at the baby. I'm sort of wondering if the adjustment was more difficult because the baby was an ambulatory creature right off the bat and of course the people were new too.
Anyway, as busy as I'll be with a newborn I'd love it if my cats didn't feel like they had to live their lives hidden for so long. Not sure what I can do to facilitate bonding (but not sleeping on baby's face of course).
And I wonder if I should enforce boundaries like not letting them be in the same room as me and baby and bassinet? They're already not really allowed in the nursery room but it won't be for a while that baby sleeps in there. Should I not allow them to curl up with us while I breastfeed baby? Should I try to get my partner or parent to hold the cats while I feed baby?
Maybe this sounds terribly neurotic wondering all this, but these guys were my first babies and I don't want them to be too unhappy and I still want to see them around lol.