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So Match Day threw us for a loop. I'll be doing my residency approximately 200 miles away from where I am now. The girl I am dating will be stuck in our current city for 2 more years because she's in grad school. Right now we've been dating for ~4 months and by the time I leave for residency it will be 7 months.
Although we live in the same city right now, we see each other perhaps two days a week just because we're both busy with school and also we enjoy our own space. But when we hang out together, we make the best of it, enjoy each other's company, and don't make a big deal about little petty things.
With those basic facts, would you attempt a long distance relationship if you were in our positions and really cared about each other? Or would you just end it right now?
I can definitely see myself longterm with this girl because she's everything I wanted and more. The ****ty part of the LDR would be driving and loss of spontaneity. It's not like we see each other every day currently so that won't be a huge change if we go long distance.
I don't know, I guess I just want some opinions. Would you at least give it a shot? Thanks!
Although we live in the same city right now, we see each other perhaps two days a week just because we're both busy with school and also we enjoy our own space. But when we hang out together, we make the best of it, enjoy each other's company, and don't make a big deal about little petty things.
With those basic facts, would you attempt a long distance relationship if you were in our positions and really cared about each other? Or would you just end it right now?
I can definitely see myself longterm with this girl because she's everything I wanted and more. The ****ty part of the LDR would be driving and loss of spontaneity. It's not like we see each other every day currently so that won't be a huge change if we go long distance.
I don't know, I guess I just want some opinions. Would you at least give it a shot? Thanks!