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I have a slight dilemna facing me. I just graduated from nursing school and got a job at a wonderful hospital in a wonderful city. My job is probably one of the best that I could get just out of school in the area that I want to work in. My problem is that my boyfriend of 1+ years is going to go to med school about 5 hours away. I am deeply in love with him and I definitely see things working out in the long run. I know that 5 hours is not quite as far away as some other places, however I don't have a car. I am afraid that I am never going to get to see him or talk to him because we will both be busy. We are both willing to try the LDR thing, but the ideal situation obviously would be for us to be in the same city. I am considering moving to the city he is in next year so that we can be together, but I don't know if I should leave my dream job. Nursing is thankfully a career you can take just about anywhere, but should I leave the great job here to move to a city where I will definitely be taking a pay cut? Is 4 years too long for a LDR to work? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.