So here's the situation. I am almost finished with medschool. I'm just waiting for the match right now. I have been so involved in school and rotations that I don't know what to do now with all my free time. My last relationship ended last January, and I dated around after that all the way to the start of the interview season. So it's been about 3 months since I've been out and out and u know what. Now that I am back on the scene and trust me when I say there are options all around me I just don't know if I should or not. I mean I don't like fooling around for just couple months then call it off since I don't know where I will end up doing residency. I don't do long distance relationship. If I had to do long distance it's got to be with the one girl of my dream. And we all know that those types don't come around every day.
The girls that are around me are nice and pretty ones. They are gf types but not quite the settle down with types. I could get with them but I feel so guilty doing that. I don't wanna hurt them knowing that at the end we will part way. At the same time I miss having someone there by my side, someone to talk to till 5 in the morning, someone to cuddle, someone to spend the lazy Sunday morning in bed with, someone to take the car and drive aimlessly along the ocean blvd.
What should I do? Should I just stop being a nice guy who worries about others' feelings and go for the fun or should I just wait for another 6 months until residency start to seriously start dating again. BTW for some reason every girls that I've been with all ended up wanting to get serious future with me even though I specifically told them I was not looking for one and they agreed to go along with that. DAMN being responsible sucks
The girls that are around me are nice and pretty ones. They are gf types but not quite the settle down with types. I could get with them but I feel so guilty doing that. I don't wanna hurt them knowing that at the end we will part way. At the same time I miss having someone there by my side, someone to talk to till 5 in the morning, someone to cuddle, someone to spend the lazy Sunday morning in bed with, someone to take the car and drive aimlessly along the ocean blvd.
What should I do? Should I just stop being a nice guy who worries about others' feelings and go for the fun or should I just wait for another 6 months until residency start to seriously start dating again. BTW for some reason every girls that I've been with all ended up wanting to get serious future with me even though I specifically told them I was not looking for one and they agreed to go along with that. DAMN being responsible sucks