I'm sure this question has been asked in other forms, but after searching, I haven't found anything that really answers it. I'm really torn between 4 "most meaningful" experiences:
1) Member of most active pre-medical organization at my university, held leadership positions/sat on board meetings/contributed substantially to the running of the club for 3 years. We organize volunteering, mentoring, shadowing, trips to the medical school, a yearly conference, etc. This is definitely staying as most meaningful, as it defines the majority of my time not studying or in the lab.
2) I've played the cello since I was eight and have performed in orchestras and ensembles ever since, continuing into my university's orchestra. This is such a huge part of my life and I want to continue into medical school and the future, and I would really like to list this as most meaningful as well.
3) Last summer I participated in a study abroad program spanning 7 different countries with 7 completely different cultures. This experience completely changed my life (I'm having an extremely hard time fitting it into 1300 characters) and although I didn't do anything medically related (I did do a service trip to an orphanage in Egypt), I believe the things I learned and experienced will help me be a better doctor.
Dilemma: I also have substantial neuroscience research (400+ hours at NIH, then full time this summer at school and continuing through next year...two separate entries in AMCAS) and I am applying to research-heavy schools. Would not listing research as my most meaningful experience be detrimental to my application to research schools (i.e. Pitt)? Research is meaningful to me, I'm not just considering this because I think it will "look good," and I want to continue in med school (not MD/PhD), but the other three mean so much to me as well. I'm wondering if talking passionately about research during interviews will be enough to emphasize its importance to me.
I considered putting my study abroad experience in my personal statement, but I used that to talk about the shadowing experience I had near the end of high school that truly solidified my choice of becoming a doctor, relating it to an experience with a relative and then linking briefly to my research at NIH - all 3 things relate to drug abuse/addiction, a topic that still interests me.
Also, would not having anything truly medically related as my most meaningful experiences be bad? The leadership experience (#1) is related in the sense that I participate in volunteer events and such through the club, and I've been able to participate in cadaver and pathology labs at the med school through them, but I'm just worried that not listing clinical experience as most meaningful might be frowned upon a bit...
Thanks for reading, I know it's long. My AMCAS just needs some final touches but all these choices are driving me crazy right now. Thanks in advance for any advice!!