This was the situation with my Mum, except it was months not years. Biggest problem was her baseline state included anxiety & depression plus suspected histrionic and BPD, so it wasn't completely out of the norm for her to become emotionally disregulated & forget things like names and places; made it really hard to spot any early warning signs of dementia As it turned out her diagnosing Doctors & Geriatrician in hospital did come to the conclusion that there were no early warning signs, and that there had been a rapid onset.
First inkling that something might be wrong was loss of appetite, weight loss & signs of clinical depression. She had just lost one of her sisters to brain cancer, so the depression was understandable at that stage. A few weeks later she was indicating signs of mental confusion & paranoid ideation, but she claimed to be aware that her thoughts were abnormal, told me her GP was monitoring her closely, had allegedly agreed to try medication & was supposedly seeing a Therapist who specialised in grief states and depression in the elderly. She went so far as to call me once a week with updates on how well her therapy was going, with detailed conversations on what they talked about, what her therapist was like, how much she thought the therapy was helping, her GP was happy with her progress, she was managing to get out and socialise more, etc etc. Then her other sister rang me and blew the lid off everything - she wasn't seeing a therapist, she was lying to her GP, lying to friends & family members, and lying to me. Before we had a chance to arrange a proper assessment she went into a delirium, lost all contact with reality, and ended up being sectioned under the mental health act. The delirium was eventually resolved, the psychotic symptoms weren't, cue the fast track into a residential care facility. She died less than a year later.
It still amazes me though how convincingly she was able to lie about her condition, right up until her hospitalisation.