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What is taught or accepted regarding the veterinarian keeping his/her composure when spending time with a client who is emotionally distraught about their animal? It is human nature to be particularly moved when a fellow human is upset, but in many occupations showing emotion is very much frowned upon.
Obviously, a vet would need to be objective and informative to owner as well as being able to fully function, but is 'tearing up' considered strictly taboo? If so, how does one learn to extract oneself in these situations? Is it just time/experience, or are there "tricks" to be learned.
To date, my professional life has revolved around negotiating with client and my company management, and the only emotions seem to be anger, frustration and, hopefully, eventual joy. But, when volunteering at the local clinic, I find it difficult to not be moved in those situations where the owner is distraught. (For me, this usually occurs after euthanasia, not while diagnosis and treating the patient.)
Your thoughts...
Obviously, a vet would need to be objective and informative to owner as well as being able to fully function, but is 'tearing up' considered strictly taboo? If so, how does one learn to extract oneself in these situations? Is it just time/experience, or are there "tricks" to be learned.
To date, my professional life has revolved around negotiating with client and my company management, and the only emotions seem to be anger, frustration and, hopefully, eventual joy. But, when volunteering at the local clinic, I find it difficult to not be moved in those situations where the owner is distraught. (For me, this usually occurs after euthanasia, not while diagnosis and treating the patient.)
Your thoughts...