I dont believe in petty survival tips like americanization, speaking local lingo, trying hard to 'fit-in' excetras, excetras. I truly believe in impressing americans with your hard work. You are never gonna impress americans with your south-asian looks, english linguistic skills or your curry cooking skills at any time. Nothing is going to get extra-points for you. I guess you are a medical professional. Whatever you do, do it with passion and sincerity. Even if it is not recognised instantly, it will be recognized soon. Even if you work ass off in the hospital, you are never going to beat that poor chinese/mexican or korean immigrant who work harder than you for nothing. They are the people who are real strugglers who have nothing. You have an education which is your blank check book.
Dont just plan to survive. Plan to rule.
Who cares abt poor linguistic skills of a german BMW engineer, Top french Chef , Romanian supermodel or an Italian designer in america? No body cares your language or looks if you are the best in your field. What matter most is the SUBSTANCE. America always recognizes talent and hard work. America only wants the best and the brightest. That is the only reason america is still the greatest country in the world.
I always remember my granny's words. She told me once even if i end up as some trash collector in new york city without getting residency or job..i should be the 'state of the art' trash collector in the world.( i guess evolving new techniques 'how to collect trash efficiently?) I even thought abt becoming top burger flipper in the world. It is quite possible in america. You could become CEO of the trashcollect.com.
I do recall reading a story abt a Colombian immigrant in Hollywood who started his career as coffee supplier for studio crews turned his business into multimillion dollars high line coffee parlours in LA. The point is BE THE BEST.
Remember those all famous FOB doctors in america who came to the US before us. They also came like us, struggled, survived and still ruling.They were no different than us.
My rules for survivor game is very simple.
Be the BEST and play HARD.
Dont be an ordinary FOB. Be an xtra-ordinary FOB.
Exude confidence from every pores of your body.
Always, always do the RIGHT THING.
Quit nothing.
(I posted this message once before and deleted. Someone requested me to post again. here you go buddy
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