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..., does this relationship have a chance? I don't see myself having a long-distance relationship for the (at least) 6 years that I won't be near him.
Something has to give, and it is up for you to decide.
(1) He sacrifices. Upon graduation, he becomes a cop in the city where you end up living.
(2) You sacrifice. Take a "worse education" rotation site so you are close to him.
(3) The relationship sacrifices. You break up.
No, there is not an option of a long-distance relationship. Living four hours apart while you're in your third year is just prolonging the inevitable. I won't make the decision for you, but why can't he be a cop wherever you go to school next year? Which is more important for him - to be a cop in his home town, or to live a mere 4 hours away to be with his girl? (I moved 1200 miles from my parents, siblings, friends to be with my wife. Guess what? I made new friends and have in-laws. I do not regret it one bit).