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In all honesty, it sounds like working on your social skills and being more strategic could be helpful. Some experiences on clinicals are definitely frustrating and unfair, like having your time not valued or inconsistent evaluations. But if your clerkship director, who has presumably evaluated many students at your school, expressed concerns about your competency and patients feeling uncomfortable around you, it suggests areas for improvement in your clinical skills and self-awareness.She paused and said that she really didn't feel safe with me taking care of patients and it could be a detriment giving me anything higher. I asked what makes her think that and she said that aside from the first two weeks (asking too many questions, communication issues), she thinks that I have caught up for clinical knowledge but also I still need to work on history/note taking. More importantly, there were instances (which I really cannot remember when) where patients felt uncomfortable with me when I was introducing myself before going into the OR because I just stood there and didn't talk. I was really shocked
So I'm glad you followed our advice. It seems from this post that things were worse than you posted so I'm going to address a few things.So currently on my second to last day of my rotation as a followup to this thread (Worried about failing first rotation - thanks in advance for those who followed and gave me advice) - I did talk less for the remainder of the clerkship. I also talked to my clerkship preceptor about this three weeks back and she said she would followup with me every week (in her words, improvement is also part of the grade!) - this ended up being just one outpatient afternoon or one operation a week, and
Yes, she realized you were smart, but not the most socially adept person. That's why she stopped gauging your knowledge, I'm wondering if the issue with your note-taking skills was that they were irrelevant to what she needed. And you couldn't read that.she didn't really continue pimping or questioning me to gauge my knowledge when my UWorld/NBME/history taking skills were clearly improving.
I had an analogous situation with an anesthesiologist twice. Did u tell her it's okay because you know she's working hard? I did this and had an excellent relationship with her. Cause I made it clear that I understood where she was coming from. Think of it from her perspective, she has this socially awkward student, and now she must take more of her time to teach him how to people. That's hard.I also didn't receive a formal midclerkship feedback session until 5/6 weeks in (she kept saying for two weeks to look out for a email sometime in the next two days but never emailed until I finally emailed her last week). Told me she had time at night after work for a longer, more formal session but then texted me saying she was too tired.
Sounds to me like you probably either did more socially awkward things or ****ed it up so badly in the first two weeks that it was unsalvageable from that perspective. The feeling u get from seeing someone is hard to change.I ended up skipping lunch twice between OR times to wait for her but that didn't work out as well as she had to run off 2 min into the session when her beeper rang and another time for a meeting. Finally, I had my mid clerkship meeting last Wednesday - which ended up being 10 min phone call in between two operations where my clerkship director called me out of the blue and really just readdressed concerns from the first two weeks.
Great! Now my socially awkward student made me go to another meeting! I wonder why she's going to either fail you or give u a low pass.We never really focused on anything from the recent few weeks, though she did say from outpatient encounters, she thinks I had improved a lot knowledge wise and knew better when to ask questions but still did have a lot to work on. In fear of failing the clerkship, I reached out to my school's dean - who scheduled a meeting with my clerkship director last Friday.
So she's saying you're socially awkward and that she might fail you. And you say how that will affect my career? I mean, not a good look. This is why she told you the second sentence. She doesn't feel safe with you at all, that's why she doesn't let you be around patients alone.Today, I met with my clerkship director again after her meeting with my dean and apparently she said she was most likely to give me a low pass (potentially a pass or a fail depending on how this week's evals and final presentation go). I said I understood and asked how she thought a low pass could affect my career. She paused and said that she really didn't feel safe with me taking care of patients and it could be a detriment giving me anything higher.
Let me tell you something. Patients (and simulation patients) tend to lie to your face and in front of your supervisor (I had this happen to me last week). So, what she is assessing is non-verbal cues that show discomfort. Could she be biased about you? Yes, absolutely. But you that's your fault for the first two weeks.I asked what makes her think that and she said that aside from the first two weeks (asking too many questions, communication issues), she thinks that I have caught up for clinical knowledge but also I still need to work on history/note taking. More importantly, there were instances (which I really cannot remember when) where patients felt uncomfortable with me when I was introducing myself before going into the OR because I just stood there and didn't talk.
This is a very critical point in your post that says a lot about you. We've been discussing that you're smart, but not the most social. So why are you bringing up how smart you are when there are forty posts that tell you that's not the problem?I also really think that I improved these past few weeks - had a surgeon who I worked with for three days total these past two weeks compliment me several times on my "profound clinical knowledge" and patient presentation skills and that he was sure I'd score 90+ on the shelf.
I have a feeling that the problem is more self-awareness or acceptance rather than understanding.I am just really confused as to what actually is happening - just met with my dean tonight who pretty said the same stuff my clerkship director said and told me not to worry about my grade but focus on improvement since its my first clerkship and so I couldn't even really argue.
It's OP's first rotation. We have no idea what kind of personality the one attending that evaluated them has had. This unnecessary and counter-productive dogpile is precisely what I was referring to in my last post.Agreeing with others: the clerkship director saying they aren’t comfortable with you taking care of patients is huge. Nothing else you wrote really matters to be honest. You need to figure out why people aren’t comfortable with you caring for patients and fix that. Students who get told this are the ones who get dismissed in the clinical years, or if they’re lucky, as junior residents. It’s rare but it happens.
Reasons most likely are:
1) socially awkward, makes patients and staff uncomfortable
2) poor documentation and presentation. Missing key H&P elements. Nobody expects students to generate good plans because that takes years. I’m still working on that part even now. But they should be able to take a good relevant history, distill it down, and write a concise note and give a focused presentation. They should know how to do an exam and present it. You are missing key points in these areas.
3) self unawareness. Maybe goes under 1 above. But you don’t seem to understand how you’re perceived or how what you’re doing is read by others.
4) inability to take feedback. Even here in your post you rationalize everything away. Faculty rarely if ever tell students they aren’t comfortable with them caring for patients even in a supervised setting. That’s huge.
5) correcting attendings. Odds are you were wrong, and this just reinforces the self unawareness and inability to take feedback. Surgeons in particular go through a loooooong training process. That first year assistant professor surgery attending has been a doctor just as long as an internist who’s been an attending for 5 years (or more). Surgeons in academic settings have done 7-10 years of training post med school. It’s unlikely you’re going to be right when you correct them because even the noobs have 10 years of experience on you.
Those are the most likely issues I can think of. The low pass is the least of your worries. My gut says they are doing that because they don’t want the hassle of trying to fail you plus failing you means you just repeat the rotation. Your saving grace is that it’s early in the year, but if you don’t turn things around you may not graduate at all.
This is the best attitude to have moving forward, and shows that you've taken the first step toward building the maturity that will help you become a great doctor. You do not need to come forward with what you think your faults are - just ask them and listen intently, and thank them afterwards. If they ask you how you plan to proceed, you can respond with a productive plan forward. It is always better to focus on constructive steps and actions - both when reflecting on experiences as a mentee, and a mentor. Remember that when you are teaching others down the line.Thank you all for the feedback. I have thought about it again today and know it is hard to swallow but I really think the best step would be to accept all of this and move on.
I do imagine it is also hard from her perspective and at my final clerkship meeting later this week, I will just be brief, make no complaints, and admit that I have struggled in various ways (after all, she's seen so many students come and go) and make no mention of grading. I do really have a lot to work on and will try my best to improve on future clerkships.
As a wannabe basketball coach, I have used this analogy many times! Teaching high-school chemistry and coaching basketball was my backup to med school!An old adage from the NCCA Basketball Tournament comets to mind: survive and advance. Some things will not go well and that's okay. Learn from them and try not to make the same mistake twice. The key is not to let them derail you--something that you will have accomplished if you receive a low pass.
Good.Update: Got a pass in the end!