hahah, of course. i actually made the decision to eliminate NYU already despite getting way less aid than you did from its peer schools like Hopkins/UCSF. i am not a huge fan of NY though/don't have east coast ties so that probably helped. however, i will say that i am an extremely risk averse person and essentially narrowed down my schools by figuring out which place would be the least riskiest/most likely to get me into a competitive specialty with the easiest means possible that would maximize my mental health and happiness. for me UCSF and Hopkins easily won over NYU because of the prestige boost & the curriculum differences. yes it's more expensive BUT if matching neurosurg would be much easier and slightly more likely at UCSF than NYU, i'd argue it is possibly worth that price tag difference (what's the price tag of failing to match nsgy and dropping to IM if you dual apply?). now, for you, there is the added concern of your family being in NYU. for me, support system is important and i know i am more likely to succeed and do well in school if i have people there. for you, you will have to figure out which is more likely to help you succeed. is it having family nearby or is it having P/F preclin+clinicals? NYU is on one end, UCSF is on the other, and Hopkins is somewhere in the middle. And if you get really lucky with Hopkins maybe you get both.