Compared to residency, there is no such thing as a "zero flexibility job." In fact, in residency not only is your schedule almost completely inflexible but deviating from it will screw over one of your fellow residents who is on "back-up" call. You can't even call in sick as a resident, and I have been on call where I required two liters of IV fluid and Zofran to keep going.
Sorry, I don't buy it. There are a lot of jobs that are 0 flexibiliy...where one can't get sick or everyone is screwed. When you are out to sea, there is no back up to call on. If someone gets sick, is injured, dies.... NO ONE can be there immediatly. Coast guard response, if you had the opportunity to call for help, can be over 12 hours away. You don't GET IV fluids to keep going.
My last trip out, we left out of NJ. We were 12 HOURS out when our first mate became deathly ill. There are 5 of us on a boat...that is what it took to operate this boat. Deathly ill = spinal meningitis, bacterial. We called the coast guard, but we were also in a Nor' Easter...meaning that coast guard response is limited. We headed to the nearest 'safe port' where Coast Gurad could meet us. 10 hours later, in the shallows off of NC, we met a CG cutter. We stuffed a man who was in and out of consciousness into an immersion suit (essentially, a suit that will help you survive for about 24 hours so that the Coasties MIGHT have a chance of saving your ass when the boat goes down) as he puked and screamed in agony. We THREW (yes, two men lifted him in a fireman's carry and tossed him over to the cutter....we were in 20 ft seas and couldn't tie down for a pass over) this deathly ill man (who did die) onto a Coastie cutter. At this stage, we were informed we could NOT come in and dock.... we were quarentined, at sea, down a man.
Guess what? When you are in residency, YOU CAN WALK OUT! You can make that decision. Yes, it will be horrible. It will ruin tons of work and probably isn't the optimal choice, but you can do it. When you are not allowed to enter US docks, are quarentined, and on a fishing boat in February, you don't have that option. You could swim (commit suicide) but that's it...only option. So, at a minimum, residents get at least one additional option then the men and women who work at sea.
You think that you are the only one that has seen beyond this life, and that you can judge it as the worst possible option. There are a lot worse hell holes to be in, ones that have NO light at the end of the tunnel...no rewards. My marriages (my first husband died) has survived imprisonment overseas during a border conflict, rape, spouse's organ replacement, distance and isolation, sealed record military service, miscarriage, homelessness, house fire, and death of a child (2nd husbands from his late wife).
Others are right. It depends on the individuals involved. It depends on how those individuals deal with their own lives and with each other. Based on all your negativity on here, it seems like that is how YOU handle YOUR life. We are reflections of our own attitudes. I have already been through horrible things that I DIDN'T have a choice in; vet/med school, residency...in ALL of those I have a choice. I have no doubts that we can survive this stage of our lives because we have survived worse.