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I can't give out too many details because I'm trying to protect my anonymity but I really would like some good advice and perspective. I'm a female in my 3rd year of med school and my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. We've been in a long distance relationship for a few months now due to school. He had to move away because he got into a different medical school than the one that I was in.
My boyfriend recently told me that he's feeling very confused. He says that he loves me and cares about me but he doesn't really like long distance relationships. He says he needs to figure out his thoughts and what he wants. The thing is, we're going to have to be in a long distance relationship for the next year and a half because of school. We get to visit each other every couple of months. It's been a few months since we last saw each other so I'm not sure if this is causing his confusion of feelings. I asked him if he's interested in someone else and he said no. He said he has been thinking too much and he's just confused.
So what should I do? Should I just end it now? I don't really want to end it now because I still love him and I see the distance as a temporary thing. I really would like to do my residency where he is. But I don't know how long I should wait for him to sort out his feelings.
Thanks in advance
My boyfriend recently told me that he's feeling very confused. He says that he loves me and cares about me but he doesn't really like long distance relationships. He says he needs to figure out his thoughts and what he wants. The thing is, we're going to have to be in a long distance relationship for the next year and a half because of school. We get to visit each other every couple of months. It's been a few months since we last saw each other so I'm not sure if this is causing his confusion of feelings. I asked him if he's interested in someone else and he said no. He said he has been thinking too much and he's just confused.
So what should I do? Should I just end it now? I don't really want to end it now because I still love him and I see the distance as a temporary thing. I really would like to do my residency where he is. But I don't know how long I should wait for him to sort out his feelings.
Thanks in advance