Wants vs. needs. Medical stuff, okay, that's probably a need, unless it's like wisdom teeth or dermatology stuff, which can be put off. Getting married and knocked up? That is definitely not a necessity. Would I like to be married now? Sure, but we certainly can't afford it, so we're waiting. Budgeting for a child? If everyone did that our social safety net systems would be far less utilized.Yeah why does everyone think this is so easy. I had medical expenses, wedding, now kids. I pay as much as possible every month
I understand everyone has different priorities and values. When's the last time you went out to eat? Aside from tonight, when I used a TGI Friday's gift card I got for Christmas, it was 3-4 weeks ago when I went to Moes and spent $12 for two. It drives me crazy to hear people say they're broke, they're spending all they have, can't spare anything, but are regularly blowing money on coffee every morning, new smartphone, new wardrobe, going out to eat, etc.
This isn't directed at anyone in particular, but just my rant on people's financial woes in general. But I guess it's fine, people blowing money gets means businesses are turning a profit on them, so it's good for the economy.