- Joined
- Mar 25, 2015
- Messages
- 424
- Reaction score
- 491
Sounds about right. Problem is... you don't really know what it's like until you're in it. And by then, it's too late.
Same probably can be said about bad marriages.
What specialty are you applying to?
Internal medicine - was split between that and psych and family Med for a while, was in the process of dual applying, but stuck with IM since I never want to do OBGYN again if I can help it. Ended up performing at the top of the class during clinical years. Don’t ask how. Third year was tough, but being part of a team, being involved with patient care and outcomes shook things up a little. That’s the best I can describe it. It was different and forced me to action.
There were bad days and real bad days.people here told me to see the school counselor/therapist when I first posted this thread. But I never did. I just grit my teeth and pushed on. Sometimes that’s what you gotta do. I think my generation takes things for granted a lot - but that’s only because we were raised that way by lousy boomers. Regardless, my advice to anyone who is adamant about pushing through: be tenacious and be as ruthless towards achieving your goals as medicine is towards you.