This thread was much more helpful yesterday. Today, the same old arguments I read about how awful pregnant women/parents are coming back in full force.
So you're saying all women who become pharmacist should not become mothers, too? I think all of the women I work with as pharmacists have children, and they haven't expected special treatment. They've taken maternity leave, but so have the men who've had children.
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a bunch of crap I don't care about...and, I won't lie, I didn't actually read...
This always gets twisted into some bull**** feminist "whoa are us, we are so oppressed" whine fest. It just so happens that this affects only women physically. If men had babies, I wouldn't give a **** about them and their delusional outlook on the universe, either.
If anything, the underlying issue is that I just find children annoying. Hell, I used to look at myself in the mirror...7 years old...I think to myself, "God damn, you are annoying as hell...hurry the hell up and get older." And as if to stab me in the eye, fate has made me look like I'm 17 years old at age 27. Haha...you are so clever, fate...you freaking a-hole.
But that I intrinsically can't stand children is also irrelevant.
And all I'm saying is that people who have children don't deserve to have as wide open of career considerations as those who do not miss 3 months of work for an elective medical procedure. Granted, it may be viewed as slightly more "important" of an event to those who have children, but to the rest of us...we don't particularly give a damn...all we know is that it effing sucks picking up your slack. I just see it as a lame, protected
elective excuse to get out of three months of work. That's just how it is. And as a person electing to undergo such a process, you are just going to have to accept the fact that what you are doing is annoying to everyone else. Not to mention selfish, being that there are literally thousands upon thousands of children in this country living in foster care that need a home already...there is no need for you to think you are special and plop out another mouth for the world to feed...but that's another discussion. Anyway...like I said...you are just going to have to accept the fact that you are annoying. That's really all it boils down to. No, people won't restrict your ability to needlessly contribute to overpopulation...no, we won't fire you for having a baby...but, dammit, we reserve the right to freaking bitch about you and your god damned three month vacation that we don't get. And you will not take that from us. It's out right to complain about you and your annoying breeding.
Now don't get me wrong...if babies poofed into existence magically, I would obviously COMPLETELY understand the need for maternity leave, etc, etc. Let's say that whole Jesus story actually happened - a'ight - Mary totally gets maternity leave for that ****. Not on her. But that isn't the case with everyone else. You are
electing to do this to yourself.
And, further, why is having a baby so freaking special that it needs some sort of protection? It's not like it takes any degree of skill to accomplish. Have you seen the Maury Povich Show? Annnnnnybody can have a child. But from my perspective...you're dang tootin' I bloody had better get a leg up in the company for three extra months of work experience. I have to show up to work for those three months with some temp worker that has no idea WTF they are doing and essentially doing the work of two people because some couple decided that they need to add to the 6 billion other humans that exist on this planet. The considerations of what this might do to your workplace isn't even considered. Not to mention that every time I go to freaking Denny's I have to deal with crying babies. In fact, now that I'm thinking and blathering, there should be a ****ing baby tax. And the proceeds should be given to everyone else in society that has to put up with you snug ****s that think you have the right to annoy everyone else by taking a free 3 month vacation and committing noise pollution via the proxy of offspring.
Just give the rest of us like $5,000 a year and we'll be square.
The only good thing that comes from people having babies is that some day they will pay my social security and medicare. So at least they will be somewhat useful...